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Guided practices
Step-by-step exercises such as sensate focus and mindfulness, with narrated audio to follow at your own pace. Some are for the two of you, some are for one.
The intimacy app for couples who want a little more spice
Private quizzes and playful games that help you talk about what you both want.
Free to downloadRated 4.7 on the App Store
There is more you want to share.
Saying it out loud is the hard part.
Most couples know there is more they could share with each other. BeMoreKinky gives the two of you a private place to find out what you both want, then turns it into plans you will actually keep.
Before
“I never know how to bring it up.”
With BeMoreKinky
Answer alone, match together, plan it
After
“Friday is on the calendar, and we both picked it.”
How it works
From a private yes to a plan you both chose
Answer on your own
Take a short couples quiz and rate ideas from the library with yes, maybe or no. You answer on your own phone, at your own pace, so nobody has to go first and nobody feels put on the spot.
Hundreds of ideas, from tender to adventurous.
See what you both said yes to
Connect with your partner using a pairing code or an email invite. BeMoreKinky shows the ideas you both said yes or maybe to, so you start from agreement instead of a guess. Finish the same quiz and your results unlock for each other, ready to compare side by side.
Your partner sees your yes and maybe answers, never your no's.
Plan a date night together
Pick something from your matches, tap Suggest a plan and choose a day. Add a note if you like. Your partner can accept it, propose an alternative or decline, and the awkward opening line is already written for you.
Nothing is sent until you tap send.
Inside the app
More ways to spend an evening
Playful games for two
The Path, and Truth or Dare
The Path is a board game for two, played on one phone. You agree on boundaries and intensity before the first move, then take turns along the route.
Truth or Dare keeps things light when you want something quicker. Both are free to start.
Signals
Small ways to stay close
Send a quick signal like “thinking of you”, add a note if you want to, and let your partner react without starting a long conversation.
Private by design
What you share stays between the two of you
BeMoreKinky is built for the conversations couples keep to themselves, and it is designed to keep them that way.
End-to-end encrypted chat
Your messages and photos are end-to-end encrypted, so only you and your partner can read them.
Your no's stay private
Your partner sees the ideas you said yes or maybe to, never the ones you said no to. Matches show where you both said yes or maybe.
App Lock
Turn it on and BeMoreKinky asks for your phone's biometrics or passcode every time you open it.
Made for every stage
of a relationship
New couples
Early on, big questions can feel like too much too soon. A quiz gives you both an easy way in, and the answers do the talking. You learn what your partner is curious about without either of you having to raise it cold.
Long-term and married couples
Years in, routines settle and conversations get shorter. BeMoreKinky helps long-term and married couples notice what has changed, try something new together and keep date night on the calendar instead of on the someday list.
However long you have been together, you set the pace, and you can skip anything that is not for you. BeMoreKinky is for adults 18 and over.
Is BeMoreKinky free?
Yes. BeMoreKinky is free to download and use. An optional Premium subscription unlocks more ideas, every quiz, the guided practices and unlimited plans. Free accounts can send three proposals every 30 days.
Does my partner need the app too?
To compare answers and plan together, yes. Each of you has your own account on your own phone, and you connect with a pairing code or an email invite. You can start exploring on your own before your partner joins.
Can my partner see all my answers?
No. Your partner sees the ideas you said yes or maybe to, never the ones you said no to. Quiz results unlock for each other once you have both finished the same quiz.
Is it only for married couples?
No. BeMoreKinky is for any adult couple, whether you met last month or have been married for twenty years.
Which phones does it work on?
BeMoreKinky is available for iPhone on the App Store and for Android phones on Google Play.
Start the conversation
tonight
Download BeMoreKinky, answer a few questions on your own and see where you and your partner already agree.