Getting Started with BeMoreKinky
Welcome to BeMoreKinky, the app designed to transform how you explore intimacy, communicate desires, and deepen connection with your partner. Whether you're curious about new experiences or ready to take your relationship to the next level, BeMoreKinky provides a safe, private space to discover what excites you, share preferences on your terms, and build the intimate life you've always wanted. Let's get you set up and exploring in minutes.
Creating Your Account
Sign-Up Options
You can create an account using:
- Email & Password - Enter your email address and create a secure password
- Google Sign-In - Use your existing Google account for quick signup
- Apple Sign-In - Use your Apple ID (iOS devices only)
Age Verification
BeMoreKinky is an adult-only application. During signup, you must confirm that you are 18 years of age or older. This is a legal requirement and cannot be bypassed.
Email Confirmation
If you sign up with email:
- Check your inbox for a confirmation email
- Click the verification link within 24 hours
- If you don't see it, check your spam/junk folder
- You can request a new confirmation email from the login screen
The Discovery Journey
During setup, the app asks a few questions about you to personalize your experience. You can skip them.
What You'll Be Asked
- Relationship status - "What's your relationship status?" (Solo, In a partnership, or Multiple partners)
- Terms - "Many activities use gendered terms. What do you prefer?" If you have a partner, you're also asked "What about your partner?"
- Role - "How do you see yourself in intimate situations?" The options follow your answer about terms. With neutral terms they are Taking the lead, Being guided, Both roles, and Still exploring.
- Adventure - "How adventurous do you feel right now?" (New to this, Exploring, Comfortable, or Very adventurous)
Personalized Recommendations
Based on your Discovery Journey answers, the app will:
- Suggest activities that match your interests
- Filter content to your comfort level
- Recommend quizzes suited to your experience
Skipping the Discovery Journey
Tap Skip to skip the questions and open the full library. Answering them gives you more personal recommendations.
Navigating the App
Main Tabs
The app has five main sections accessible from the bottom navigation:
| Tab | Purpose |
|---|---|
| Explore | Browse and rate activities, take quizzes, search, and start guided courses |
| Play | Browse plans and suggest a plan to your partner |
| Partner | Chat, journal, activities, quizzes and habits with your partner |
| Workshop | Tools like Habits, Journal, Truth or Dare and Spin the Wheel |
| Profile | Account settings and preferences |
Understanding the Home Screen
Your home screen displays:
- Featured Quizzes - Weekly highlighted quizzes to explore
- Activity Categories - Browse activities by type
- Daily Selection - Your chosen activity for the day
- Quick Actions - Fast access to common features
Your First Steps
1. Complete Your Profile
Navigate to Profile and fill in:
- Display name
- Brief bio (optional)
- Avatar/profile photo
- Role preferences
2. Explore Some Activities
Go to Explore and:
- Browse activity categories
- Swipe through activities to rate them (Yes/No/Maybe)
- Build your personal activity rankings
3. Take a Quiz
From the home screen:
- Tap on a featured quiz
- Answer the questions honestly
- Review your personalized results
4. Consider Connecting a Partner
If you have a partner who also uses the app:
- Go to Partner tab
- Send an invitation via email or pairing code
- Once connected, you can share preferences and create proposals
Privacy & Safety
Your Data is Private
- Nothing you rate or answer is shared publicly
- A connected partner sees the activities you rated Yes or Maybe, never your No answers
- Quiz results are shared with your partner once you have both finished the same quiz
Content Control
- All content is filtered to your preferences
- You can hide activities you're not interested in
- Premium content is clearly marked
Account Security
- Use a strong, unique password
- Enable two-factor authentication if available
- Never share your login credentials
Common First-Time Questions
Q: Is my information visible to others?
A: No. The only person who can see any of your answers is a connected partner. They see the activities you rated Yes or Maybe and your results for quizzes you have both finished, never your No answers.
Q: Can I change my Discovery Journey answers?
A: Some of them. Go to Profile > Personalization > Gender preferences to change the terms used for you and your partner, and your dynamic. Your relationship status and adventure answers can't be changed after setup.
Q: What's the difference between free and premium?
A: Free users can browse activities, take quizzes, and connect with one partner. Premium unlocks additional activities, removes limits on play proposals, and provides access to exclusive content. See Premium Features for details.
Q: How do I delete my account?
A: Go to Profile > Account Settings > Delete Account. This action is permanent and removes all your data from our servers.
Q: Is this app LGBTQ+ friendly?
A: Absolutely. BeMoreKinky is inclusive of all genders, orientations, and relationship structures. You can configure your preferences to match your identity.
Need More Help?
- Check our Troubleshooting Guide for common issues
- Review feature-specific guides in this support section
- Contact support through Profile > Help & Support