Account & Profile Settings
Your experience, your rules. Account Settings puts you in complete control of how BeMoreKinky works for you, from the name your partner sees to the notifications you receive, from what data you share to how the app looks and feels. Customize every detail to match your comfort level, protect your privacy with robust security options, and make the app truly yours. This is intimacy exploration on your terms.
Profile Settings
Accessing Your Profile
- Tap the Profile tab (person icon)
- Tap Edit Profile or the settings gear icon
Profile Information
You can customize:
| Field | Description |
|---|---|
| Display Name | How you appear to your partner |
| Bio | A brief description about yourself |
| Avatar | Your profile picture |
| Role Title | Your preferred role identification |
Updating Your Avatar
- Go to Profile > Edit Profile
- Tap your current avatar
- Choose:
- Take a new photo
- Select from gallery
- Choose a default avatar
- Crop and adjust as needed
- Save changes
Personalization
Go to Profile > Personalization. It has four settings:
| Setting | What It Does |
|---|---|
| Gender preferences | The gendered terms used for you and for your partner, and your dynamic |
| Title preferences | The names you like to hear |
| Role terms | Choose Dom/Sub or Giver/Receiver terms. Dom/Sub is the default. This changes the labels across the app, including the role picker when you suggest a plan |
| Images | Show images and pick the art style |
Communication Preferences
Go to Profile > Account > Communication preferences to manage push notifications and email settings, including whether notifications show prompt text.
Notification Settings
Managing Notifications
Control push notifications:
- Go to Profile > Notifications
- Configure by category:
| Category | Notifications |
|---|---|
| Partner | Connection requests, profile updates |
| Proposals | New proposals, responses, reminders |
| Tasks | Assignments, due dates, completions |
| Rewards | Claims, fulfillment, point updates |
| Quizzes | New quizzes, partner completions |
| System | App updates, security alerts |
Notification Timing
Set quiet hours:
- Go to Profile > Notifications > Quiet Hours
- Enable quiet hours
- Set start and end times
- Choose which notifications can break through
Privacy Settings
What Your Partner Can See
Once you connect with a partner:
- They see the activities you rated Yes or Maybe, grouped by area. They never see your No answers.
- Your quiz results are shared automatically once your partner finishes the same quiz. Until then, they only see that you finished.
- Journal entries are shared unless you switch sharing off for that entry.
There is no setting that hides your Yes or Maybe answers from a connected partner. See Partner Connection for details.
App Lock
Go to Profile > Account > App lock to require your device's screen lock to open BeMoreKinky.
Hidden Content
Go to Profile > Activities & quizzes > Hidden content to manage the quizzes, categories and areas you have hidden. Hiding something removes it from your own view only.
Analytics
Our Privacy Policy describes the usage data we collect and how we use it.
Account Security
Changing Your Password
- Go to Profile > Account > Security
- Tap Change Password
- Enter your current password
- Enter and confirm new password
- Save changes
Password Requirements
Strong passwords should have:
- At least 8 characters
- Mix of upper and lowercase letters
- At least one number
- At least one special character
Email Address
To change your email:
- Go to Profile > Account > Email
- Enter your new email address
- Enter your password to confirm
- Verify the new email via link sent
Connected Accounts
Manage sign-in methods:
- Go to Profile > Account > Connected Accounts
- View connected services (Google, Apple)
- Add or remove connections
Data Management
Exporting Your Data
Download a copy of your data:
- Go to Profile > Data & Privacy > Export Data
- Request an export
- You'll receive an email with download link
- Export includes ratings, quiz results, and history
Resetting Data
Reset specific data types:
| Reset Option | What It Clears |
|---|---|
| Activity Ratings | All Yes/No/Maybe ratings |
| Quiz History | All quiz results |
| Task Data | All task completions and history |
| Learning Progress | Learning path progress |
Warning: Resets cannot be undone.
Deleting Your Account
To permanently delete your account:
- Go to Profile > Account > Delete Account
- Read the consequences
- Enter your password
- Confirm deletion
What happens:
- All your data is permanently deleted
- Active subscriptions continue until cancelled separately
- Partner connections are severed
- This action cannot be undone
App Settings
Display Settings
- Go to Profile > App Settings > Display
- Configure:
- Theme (Light/Dark/System)
- Text size
- Animation preferences
Language
- Go to Profile > App Settings > Language
- Select your preferred language
- App restarts to apply
Haptic Feedback
- Go to Profile > App Settings > Haptics
- Toggle haptic feedback on/off
- Adjust intensity (if available)
Cache & Storage
- Go to Profile > App Settings > Storage
- View storage used
- Clear cache to free space
Help & Support
Getting Help
- Go to Profile > Help & Support
- Options:
- FAQ - Common questions
- Contact Support - Email support team
- Report a Bug - Submit bug reports
- Send Feedback - Share suggestions
App Information
View app details:
- Go to Profile > About
- See:
- App version
- Build number
- Terms of Service
- Privacy Policy
- Open source licenses
Common Questions
Q: How do I change my username?
A: Go to Profile > Edit Profile and update your Display Name. This is what your partner sees.
Q: Can I use the app without notifications?
A: Yes. You can disable all notifications in Profile > Notifications, or in your device settings. However, you might miss important updates from your partner.
Q: How do I make my profile completely private?
A: Nobody but a connected partner sees your answers, and they never see your No answers. To stop sharing with a partner entirely, remove the connection from Partner > Partner settings.
Q: What happens to my data if I'm inactive?
A: Your data is preserved indefinitely while your account exists. We don't delete inactive accounts automatically.
Q: Can I change the email associated with Google/Apple sign-in?
A: The email comes from your Google/Apple account. To change it, update your email in Google/Apple account settings.
Q: How do I report inappropriate content?
A: Use Profile > Help & Support > Report a Problem and select "Inappropriate Content." Include details about what you saw.
Q: Can I hide my account temporarily?
A: There's no "hide" feature, but you can:
- Pause your partner connection
- Disable activity status
- Turn off notifications
Troubleshooting
Can't Update Profile
- Check your internet connection
- Ensure all required fields are filled
- Try a smaller profile image
- Force close and reopen the app
Settings Not Saving
- Wait for the save confirmation
- Don't navigate away too quickly
- Check your connection
- Try logging out and back in
Email Change Not Working
- Check spam folder for verification email
- Ensure the new email isn't already registered
- Wait 24 hours if you've recently changed it
- Contact support if issues persist
Notification Issues
If notifications aren't working:
- Check in-app notification settings
- Check device notification permissions
- Ensure battery optimization isn't blocking the app
- Reinstall the app if needed