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Praise Kink: The Complete Guide to Affirmation-Based Pleasure

Woman being praised

“You did such a good job clicking on this article – you’re absolutely crushing it.” Did that little bit of praise give you a tiny thrill? If so, you might relate to what’s popularly known as a praise kink. In recent years, praise kinks have surged into the mainstream conversation (hello, TikTok) as people discover the erotic charge that comes from well-timed compliments and affirmations in the bedroom.

This comprehensive guide will walk you through everything you need to know – from the psychology behind praise and arousal to real-world examples and tips. By the end, you’ll understand why affirmation-based pleasure can be so potent, and how to explore it in your own intimate life with confidence and care.

What is Praise Kink?

Praise kink – sometimes called affirmation play or the “good girl/boy” kink – refers to deriving sexual arousal and fulfillment from receiving (or giving) positive affirmations, compliments, and praise during intimacy. In other words, words of approval turn you on. It’s more than enjoying a casual compliment; it’s feeling a surge of desire when your partner tells you how amazing you are in the moment. For example, hearing “You feel so good” or “That’s my good girl” might send shivers down your spine or even bring you to climax if you have a praise kink.

Importantly, praise kink crosses beyond everyday flattery into the erotic realm. Sex educator Sarah Deysach explains that while many people like words of affirmation, having a praise kink means those words contribute directly to your sexual satisfaction. It often manifests as a form of power play: one partner (often in a dominant role) showers the other (often the submissive) with praise and “good job” energy. In BDSM circles, praise kink is considered the softer side of D/s dynamics – essentially the opposite of a degradation kink. Instead of insults or “dirty” talk that puts someone down, praise kink is all about building someone up with affirmative language.

That said, you don’t have to be in a formal BDSM relationship to enjoy praise kinks. It can be part of a power exchange (imagine a Dominant cooing “you’re doing so well” to their submissive), but it’s equally accessible to vanilla couples who simply discover that constant positive reinforcement during sex takes their pleasure to new heights. As sexologist Marla Stewart puts it, embracing a praise kink means _“constant positive reinforcement that helps people feel loved, desired, and wanted.” Ultimately, it’s about using kind words as an erotic tool – words that make you feel deeply appreciated, sexy, and safe in your partner’s presence.

_A couple sharing an intimate moment. In a praise kink scenario, affirming words (and even gentle, approving touches) can heighten arousal and emotional intimacy for both partners.

One hallmark of a praise kink is that some people find they crave praise to reach satisfaction. They might even say they “can’t get turned on” without hearing those encouraging words. For instance, one woman with a praise kink shared, “I get sexually aroused by verbal praise... quiet sex feels like sex with the praise missing,” and noted she sometimes can’t orgasm without it. Others with milder praise kinks simply find sex better with praise, even if they can still enjoyintimacy without it. There’s a spectrum: for some, praise is the “main course” of their erotic menu, for others it’s an enhancing “spice” that isn’t strictly required but definitely appreciated.

Alternate terms: You might hear praise kink referred to as “good girl kink” or “good boy kink,” given how common those particular praise phrases are, especially in erotic fiction and BDSM scenes. It’s also been dubbed “affirmation play,” emphasizing the act of experimenting with giving/receiving affirming words in a sexual context. All these terms point to the same idea: deriving pleasure from being valued and praised in an intimate moment.

The Psychology of Praise and Arousal

Why is praise such a turn-on for so many people? The answer lies in a mix of psychological needs and neurobiological rewards. Let’s break down the factors that make affirmation-based pleasure so powerful:

In summary, the psychology of praise kink is a blend of brain chemistry (reward, bonding), emotional psychology (validation, confidence), and relational dynamics (power exchange, trust). Praise turns many people on because it satisfies primal emotional needs while simultaneously rewarding the brain. It’s both psychologically comforting and erotically exciting – a potent combination.

Praise Kink vs. Degradation

Praise kink is often described as the flip-side of a degradation kink. Both involve erotic “dirty talk” of a sort – but one lifts you up, while the other puts you down (in a consensual way). Let’s clarify the differences and how they can even interplay:

  • Tone and Effect: In a praise kink scenario, the language is positive and affirming: “You’re doing so well,” “Such a good boy,” “I adore your body.” The aim is to make the recipient feel valued, cherished, and confident. In a degradation kink, the language goes negative or insulting: “You’re my filthy little slut,” “You don’t deserve this,” etc. Surprisingly to some, this also turns certain people on – but for different psychological reasons (humiliation, taboo, feeling “used,” etc.). The key distinction is what emotion the words tap into. Praise gives a sense of pride or accomplishment (I’m pleasing my partner), whereas degradation gives a sense of embarrassment or being “naughty” (I’m being mistreated in a safe context). Both can involve power exchange, but one is warm power (“I bestow approval on you”) and the other is harsh power (“I exert dominance by belittling you”).

  • “Soft” vs “Hard” BDSM: Praise kink is often seen as the _softerside_ of BDSM. It’s gentle, encouraging, often wrapped in affectionate tones. Degradation play is edgier and can psychologically cut deeper, which is why it usually requires very strong trust and prior negotiation. Not everyone who enjoys a praise kink will enjoy degradation – the two emotional experiences are quite different. Some folks are all about the snuggly, loving Dom persona who says “good girl.” Others prefer the strict, sadistic Dom persona who might growl “you’re pathetic.” And some people like to mix both (more on that below).

  • Brats and Mixed Dynamics: Interestingly, many in the kink community enjoy a combination of praise and degradation. A common scenario is the “brat” dynamic – the submissive playfully misbehaves to invite a dominant’s mock scolding, only to eventually earn their praise. As one kink enthusiast in Sydney described: _“I’m technically what they’ll call a brat. I make the Dom work for it. They’ll talk down to me when I’m being a brat, but once I finally give in, I’ll be called a good girl and told I did a good job.”_ In this way, degradation becomes the foreplay and praise the climax of the power struggle. The contrast can heighten the impact of both – being called a “dirty little slut” one minute and “so beautiful” the next creates an intensepush-pull of emotions. Many BDSM scenes artfully weave between the two, using pain/pleasure or mean words/nice words to keep a submissive on their toes.

  • Personal Preference Rules: There’s no hierarchy that one is better or more “advanced” than the other. It truly comes down to personal taste and emotional wiring. Some people hear “Good girl” and melt, but “You slut” would ruin their headspace (or vice versa). It’s crucial in any partnership to discuss which style of dirty talk (if any) appeals to each person. Even within praise, certain phrases might hit wrong – e.g. one person might love “good girl” while another finds it icky or infantilizing. Consent and open communication are as vital here as with any kink. If you’re unsure what your partner likes, ask them or try gentle experimentation (more tips on this in the How to Explore section).

  • Psychological Outcomes: After a scene, the aftercare needs might differ. Degradation play can leave a submissive emotionally raw or uncertain (“Does my partner really think those mean things about me?”). It often requires lots of comforting, reaffirmation that it was role-play, and positive aftercare. Praise-centric play typically leaves both parties feeling boosted and bonded – the receiver feels accomplished and the giver often feels appreciative too. (Fun fact: giving praise also releases dopamine for the giver, making them feel good. So a dominant praising their sub is also positively reinforcing their own brain – it’s a win-win!) This doesn’t mean praise kink requires no aftercare; any intense scene can benefit from cool-down cuddles and discussion. But the tone of aftercare might simply continue the warm praise: “You were amazing – thank you,” reinforcing the positive vibe.

To sum up, praise kink vs. degradation kink is largely about positive versus negative language, though both are consensual erotic games. They aren’t mutually exclusive – many kinksters enjoy switching between honeyed praise and filthy degradation within the same encounter. As one educator quipped, _“you can be a good girl and a bad girl at the same time.”_ It all depends on what you and your partner find arousing and where your comfort zones lie. The wonderful thing is, whether you respond to sweet praise or stinging insults, there’s no shame in either. It’s all about finding what words speak to your erotic self.

Common Praise Kink Phrases and Examples

Following eye contact during praise

So, what kinds of words might you hear (or use) in a steamy praise-filled session? While the best praise is tailored to the individual and the context, there are definitely some classic praise kink phrases that many find irresistible. Below is a list of common examples, ranging from sweet and PG-rated to downright explicit. Consider these a starting point – tone of voice and authenticity often matter more than the exact words, but these can spark some ideas:

  • “Good girl” / “Good boy.” – The bread and butter of praise kink. Simple but powerful, it’s all about conveying approval. (Replace with the person’s preferred gender terms, of course. Some non-binary folks might even like “good [pet name]” or just “good job.”)

  • “I’m so proud of you, [name/bae].” – Adds a personal touch. Implies they’ve pleased you greatly, which can be a huge turn-on for someone who wants to perform wellfor their lover.

  • “You’re doing so good” / “You’re doing such a good job.” – Great during any act, to encourage them that whatever they’re doing (moving, oral, etc.) is hitting the mark.

  • “Look at you taking it so well.” – A bit more specific; often used in penetrative contexts (e.g. “Look at you taking my fingers so well”). It highlights their capability and openness.

  • “That’s my girl/boy/baby.” – The “that’s my _____” construction is possessive in a loving way. It can make the listener feel claimed and treasured (e.g. “That’s my good girl, keep going.”).

  • “You feel amazing” / “You taste so good” / “I love how you do that.” – Compliments tied to specific sensations or actions. For example, telling someone “You feel incredible around me” or “I love the way you suck me” reinforces that their body or skill is giving pleasure.

  • “I can’t get enough of you” / “You make me so hard/wet.” – Expresses how desirable they are by showing your reaction. Knowing they provoke that arousal in you is a huge ego (and libido) boost.

  • “Such a beautiful [girl/boy/person]” / “You’re so damn sexy.” – Direct body praise. Many with praise kinks enjoy hearing their appearance admired in detail: _“You have the most perfect __,” “I adore your _,” etc. This can help melt body insecurities.

  • “Good [insert role].” – If roleplaying, incorporate the role: “Good pet,” “Good little slut,” etc. Note: “slut” is degradation to some, but in kink it can be a proud label for others. Some mix a bit of that in (“You’re my good little slut, aren’t you?”) – a hybrid of praise and degradation.

  • “Yes, just like that – you’re making me feel so good.” – Real-time feedback that doubles as praise. It guides them and rewards them simultaneously.

  • “I’m so lucky to have you” / “You’re mine, and you’re perfect.” – Deeper emotional praise, reinforcing the bond. This can be incredibly affirming during intense intimacy, making someone feel cherished.

  • “Keep going, just like that, good [boy/girl].” – Combines encouragement with praise. Great for when they’re doing something really right and you want them to continue confidently.

  • Non-verbals: Don’t underestimate non-verbal praise. Breathless moans, gasps of “Oh yes!”, even a gentle head petting or a thumbs-up in a playful moment can all convey “good job!” energy. A forehead kiss with a whisper “Thank you, that was amazing,” after the deed is done, is praise that doubles as afterglow sweetness.

Remember, authenticity is key. As one kink enthusiast noted, it’s not about using magical phrases in a robotic way – it’s about meaning itin the moment. Pick phrases that genuinely resonate with how you feel about your partner. If “good girl” makes you or your partner cringe, don’t force it just because the internet thinks it’s hot. Maybe “You sexy beast” or a simple “God, you’re amazing” fits your style better. The hottest praise is often spontaneous and specific: noticing the little things your lover is doing and vocalizing your appreciation of them.

For those new to this, it might feel a bit awkward to churn out flowery compliments on command. Start small if needed – even a breathy “yes, just like that…” is a form of positive feedback. With practice, you may find the phrases flow more freely as you tune into what turns your partner on to hear. And if you’re the one receiving, don’t be shy about giving feedback later: tell your partner which praises made you gush (emotionally or literally). Maybe that “you’re talented with your tongue” comment really lit you up – let them know! That encourages more of the same and helps them refine their sexy lexicon for you.

Inclusive note: While many classic praise phrases use gendered terms (“good girl/boy”), praise kink absolutely exists for all genders and orientations. Adapt language as needed – e.g., some non-binary folks might prefer neutral praise like “good pet” or simply avoiding girl/boy labels. The goal is your partner feeling seen and affirmed in a way that aligns with their identity. For example, telling a trans man “You’re such a handsome man, you make me so wet” could be incredibly affirming of both his gender and sexual desirability. Customize your praise to who you’re with.

Praise Kink Roleplay Ideas

If you’re eager to weave praise into some imaginative scenarios, roleplay can be a fun way to heighten the dynamic. The idea is to set up a context where praise and accomplishment are front and center, giving you lots of excuses to dish out (or receive) compliments. Here are a few creative roleplay ideas that pair perfectly with a praise kink:

  1. The Star Student & The Proud Teacher (Adult Education Edition): One partner plays a teacher or mentor figure, and the other the eager student. The “student” has been very good and is rewarded for their excellent work. The teacher might purr things like, “Such a clever student – you’ve learned everything I taught you” while, ahem, demonstrating some “extra credit” assignments. This scenario works well if you enjoy a bit of power difference. Just ensure to establish that it’s a consenting roleplay between adults. The thrill comes from that authority figure lavishing you with praise and perhaps literally giving out “gold stars” for performance.

  2. Boss and Employee of the Month: In this workplace fantasy, the boss character has called in their top-performing employee for a special meeting. Instead of a bonus, the reward is… well, use your imagination. The boss praises the employee’s every effort: “You’ve exceeded all your targets – you deserve a raise,” delivered with a sultry tone. The employee might respond shyly, soaking up the rare validation. This can be a confidence boost for the “employee” partner, especially if in real life they don’t get enough appreciation at work. It’s a chance to rewrite the script and be utterly valued.

  3. Royalty and Knight (or Handmaiden): For a more historical or fantasy flair, one of you is a noble – a Queen/King or perhaps a deity – and the other is a loyal knight or devoted servant. The key element: the nobleperson bestows effusive praise and perhaps titles upon their loyal subject in return for their devoted service. “You have served me so well, my brave knight. I am pleased beyond words,” says the royal, perhaps rewarding the knight with their touch. This scenario emphasizes a power dynamic where praise is literally a gift from a higher status character, intensifying its value.

  4. Performer and Biggest Fan: Think celebrity/pop star and adoring fan, or stripper and appreciative client, or even a cam performer and viewer scenario. The performer partner shows off their skills (dancing, teasing, sexual skills) and the other showers them with praise like an awestruck fan: “You’re incredible! I can’t take my eyes off you, you’re killing it!” This can be great if one partner likes being in the spotlight. It allows them to ham it up, while the “fan” partner basically roleplays verbal cheering and worship. It’s playful and can incorporate elements like pretending to “tip” with kisses or treats for each impressive trick the performer does.

  5. Personal Trainer and Trainee: A fitness-themed spin: one partner is the encouraging trainer or coach, the other the trainee striving to “improve.” As the trainer pushes the trainee to “give me 5 more” (be that thrusts, spanks, whatever fits your play), they also keep up a flow of motivating praise: “Yes, you’ve got this! Good job, keep going, just like that – you’re making me so proud.” The physicality of a workout scenario can blend seamlessly into sexual activity. This can be both silly and sexy – giggles might happen, and that’s okay! It’s a lighthearted way to roleplay where praise is literally the method the trainer uses to drive performance.

  6. The Pet and Owner (Pet Play Praise): If you enjoy pet play or a softer D/s vibe, one partner can be the “pet” (puppy/kitty, etc.) and the other the doting owner. The owner gives simple commands (“Sit”, “Beg”, “Lick”) and lavishes praise and head pats when the pet performs: “Good boy! What a good little puppy you are, making your owner so happy.” This scenario leans heavily into physical praise (petting, treats) combined with verbal. It can feel very affectionate and primal at the same time. Just make sure both partners actually like pet play elements – it’s not for everyone. But for some, being called a “good girl” while literally getting petted scratches a very specific itch.

Feel free to modify any of these scenarios or dream up your own. The common thread is that achieving something or pleasing the other is built into the roleplay premise, so that praise flows naturally. Also, decide on boundaries and how far you want the roleplay to go (Is it just talk? Does it involve sexual acts as part of the “scene”? Any costumes or props?). Consent and comfort come first, even in fantasy. Use a safe word if you’re delving into power exchange, and do a check-in after to ensure everyone felt good about it.

One more thought: Praise doesn’t always have to be one-directional. In many of the above, one person is mainly giving praise and the other receiving (common in D/s style play). But you can absolutely have mutually praiseful scenes. For example, two lovers might decide tonight they’re going to constantly trade compliments and “cheerlead” each other through the session, creating a positive feedback loop of arousal. That can be lovely for egalitarian dynamics or if both partners have a praise kink and want their share of validation. There’s no rule that only subs like praise – dominants can enjoy it too (who wouldn’t like hearing “You’re such an amazing dom; you make me feel so safe and excited,” right?). So you could roleplay a Queen praising her knight, and the knight gushing about the Queen’s wisdom and beauty. In sex, as in life, everybody likes to feel appreciated.

Praise Kink for Women

While praise kink isn’t limited by gender, it has notably resonated with many women and femme-identifying folks. Social media trends show lots of women openly thirsting over praise (all those TikToks about getting called a good girl aren’t coming out of nowhere). Let’s explore why praise kink can be particularly impactful for women:

1. Rewriting Social Conditioning: Women, in many cultures, are taught to be modest, even self-critical. We often deflect compliments in daily life (“Oh, this old dress? I look okay, I guess.”). In the bedroom, this can translate into insecurity or difficulty embracing pleasure (worrying about how we look, whether we’re “good enough,” etc.). Praise kink offers a powerful antidote: it’s essentially permission to feel confident and proud in a sexual context. When a female partner hears, “You’re so good at this, you’re gorgeous,” during intimacy, it directly challenges any negative self-talk with immediate positive affirmation. That can be hugely liberating. In her work, Esther Perel has noted that letting go of one’s inner critic is key to fully experiencing erotic freedom. For many women, receiving praise helps silence that critical voice, allowing them to enjoy sex unapologetically. It’s a lot easier to be uninhibited when you’re being continually assured “yes, you’re doing it right – in fact, you’re amazing.”

2. Making Up for the “Praise Deficit”: Some theorize (and anecdotal evidence supports) that women may experience a praise deficit in heteronormative relationships. Dr. Sarah Ashton pointed out a cultural pattern: many cisgender men haven’t been raised to freely give emotional validation, leaving generations of women starved for affirming words. Think about it – a lot of women can relate to feeling unappreciated or unseen by past partners who rarely gave compliments or thanks. Thus, discovering a partner who generously praises can almost feel like an emotional healing experience. It’s not just arousing; it fills a cup that’s been empty. One could say women’s arousal often has a strong emotional component, and feeling truly valued ticks that box. As one woman said about her praise kink, _“You just feel so much more confident and better about yourself [with praise].”_ Confidence and feeling good about oneself are highly correlated with sexual arousal – when you feel like a goddess, you’re more likely to let your inner goddess out in bed.

3. Submissive Appeal and Safety: Many (not all, but many) women who enjoy submissive roles in kink report that praise is a core part of their kink. Being called “good girl” hits a sweet spot between vulnerability and approval. It reinforces the idea that surrendering control and pleasing your partner is admirable and wanted. This can create a feedback loop of “the more I submit, the more he/she praises me, and the higher I soar.” It also adds a layer of emotional safety to rougher play. For instance, if a woman is being spanked or dominated, a well-timed “That’s my good girl, you’re taking it so well” can reassure her that everything is okay and that her obedience is cherished. It keeps the emotional tone positive even within intense play, which many women find helps them push limits without feeling degraded or used (unless they want to feel a bit used – again, personal taste).

4. Body Positivity in Intimacy: Women often grapple with body image issues that can intrude on sex (“Ugh, do my thighs look huge in this position?”). Praise kink directly combats this by focusing on what’s beautiful and sexy. Hearing your partner moan, “God, you’re so beautiful like this,” or getting specific praise (e.g., “Your hips are incredible,” “I love how wet you get for me”) can radically shift a woman’s focus. Instead of critiquing herself from an outside gaze, she starts experiencing her body from within, as a source of pride and pleasure. Over time, consistent praise from a trusted lover can genuinely improve a woman’s self-image. Of course, self-love ultimately must come from within, but positive reinforcement from one’s partner is a lovely boost. It’s like having a personal hype squad in the bedroom for all those parts of you the world may have made you feel insecure about. This is why praise can be deeply empowering for women – it validates that you are desirable exactly as you are.

5. Erotic Ownership of “Good Girl”: The phrase “good girl” deserves a special mention. Culturally, women often rebel against being a “good girl” in the chaste, behave-yourself sense. But in kink, many have reclaimed and eroticized the term. Within a consensual dynamic, being called a “good girl” doesn’t mean being a demure lady; it means “you’re excelling at driving me wild”. It’s like being teacher’s pet, but the subject is pleasure. Many women find this incredibly hot because it blends the sweetness of being adored with the naughtiness of sexual context. It presses a psychological button: maybe as girls we wanted to be praised by authority figures (parents, teachers) and now we channel that into sexual validation from a lover. The result? A melting, submissive high when those words are uttered. As one writer noted, “‘Good girl’ has become so popular... it’s almost a whole sub-genre.” That said, not every woman likes the term – some prefer more gender-neutral or mature praise. But for those who do, it’s potent.

In essence, praise kink for women often dovetails with confidence, emotional fulfillment, and a sense of being treasured. It’s a welcome break from societal critiques – a space where she’s enthusiastically told “yes, you’re wonderful.” Erotic fulfillment often arises from feeling recognized and cherished in our vulnerability. For many women, praise provides exactly that recognition at the crucial moment, unlocking deeper layers of arousal.

(A quick note: All women are individuals – not every woman will resonate with praise kink. Some might prefer other dynamics. But if a woman in your life has hinted she loves compliments in bed, now you know why it likely means a lot to her!)

Praise Kink for Men

Men have praise kinks too – and it’s time we talk about it, because if women are starved for praise, men are often parched. In society, men rarely receive compliments about anything other than perhaps job performance. As relationship expert Dr. Laura Berman notes, _“Wives/girlfriends tend to be the only people in a man’s life who ever offer them compliments... men love to hear what they’re doing right, especially as husbands and **ESPECIALLYin the bedroom**.”_ This sets the stage for why a praise kink can be incredibly powerful for men:

1. Unmet Need for Validation: Think about the last time you (if you’re a man) got a genuine compliment. Many men struggle to recall one recently. Men are often socialized to appear confident and not seek validation – “tough it out,” “don’t need praise.” Yet, they’re human. They do need to feel appreciated and desirable, just as anyone does. This cultural lack of compliments means that when a romantic/sexual partner does praise a man, it hits like a bolt of lightning. It might even catch him off-guard at first (cue the “shucks, thanks” reflex). But internally, it’s incredibly fulfilling. In sexual scenarios, a man who hears “I love the way you [do that], you make me feel amazing,” experiences a rush of pride and pleasure that can amplify his arousal. It’s basically activating that provider/performer instinct – knowing he’s excelling at pleasing you encourages him to keep going (remember that dopamine loop for praise works on guys too). For some men, hearing “good boy” from a confident partneris hugely arousing, maybe because it’s so rare to be coddled or praised that way. One male Redditor even joked that a random compliment from 5 years ago still lives rent-free in his head – imagine the effect of targeted erotic praise!

2. Reducing Performance Anxiety: Men often face pressure to perform sexually (get erect, last long, “give” their partner an orgasm, etc.). This can create a lot of internal anxiety that ironically can sabotage performance. Praise is a fantastic anxiolytic in these moments. Telling a guy, “You’re doing great,” “You’re so good at knowing what I need,” or “I love your cock, it’s perfect,” directly counters those fears that he’s not measuring up. It’s like giving a thumbs-up mid-act, letting him know he’s on the right track. The result? He relaxes more, which actually tends to improve erection and stamina (stress is not sexy to the male body). A specific example: if a man worries about lasting long, praising what he’s doing (focus on the positives) can shift his brain away from the worry and into the pleasure of making you feel good. By the time you’re saying “I’m going to cum because of you,” his brain registers success rather than fearing failure. In this way, praise can bolster a man’s sexual confidence, creating a positive cycle instead of a negative spiral.

3. Men as Submissives – Feeling “Held”: Many men who enjoy submissive roles relish praise from their dominant partner. It allows them to be vulnerable and still feel manly in that vulnerability because they’re being appreciated, not demeaned. A submissive man might love hearing “Good boy, you’ve pleased your Mistress,” which validates his choice to submit as something admirable. For men in particular, who are often not encouraged to be yielding, this kind of praise can make submission feel safer and more rewarding. It reassures them that they’re not weak for submitting – in fact, their partner loves and values it. This is huge for letting go. As one male kinkster put it, being praised by a woman while feeling submissive gives “submissive vibes for sure,” and it’s intensely arousing. It’s like he’s free to drop the macho act and still be desired for it.

4. Men as Dominants – Positive Reinforcement: On the flip side, men in dominant roles might not need praise to the same extent during the act (since they’re usually the one giving it in a praise kink scenario). But that doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy a well-placed compliment. A sub saying “Yes, sir, you make me feel so good” or “You’re so strong, I love how you’re handling me” can make a dom feel like King of the World. Dominant men often have an ego investment in being skilled lovers or powerful figures; stroking that ego with praise is only going to heighten their arousal and erotic focus. Some dominants will incorporate this into roleplay: demanding the sub verbally praise them (which is both a power exercise and a way to receive affirmation). Example: “Tell me how much you love my cock,” the dom says – and when the sub lavishes words, the dom actually gets a turn-on from hearing it. So yes, men can absolutely let praise fuel their pleasure, whichever side of the D/s slash they fall on.

5. General Well-Being and Bonding: Outside of strictly kink dynamics, incorporating more praise in sex for men can improve relationship satisfaction. Men often report feeling most emotionally connected during or right after sex (because physical intimacy is a primary emotional outlet for many). If that sex is also filled with loving words like “I adore you”, “You make me so happy,” etc., it doubles as an emotional bonding moment. We sometimes forget that under the layers of stoicism, men can be quite tender. A man might joke off compliments with a smirk, but internally he’s glowing. A bedroom environment where both partners freely express appreciation will make a man feel secure, loved, and motivated to invest even more in his partner’s happiness. Dr. Berman mentioned that when men do receive more appreciation, they tend to give more in return – it creates a virtuous cycle in the relationship.

In short, men benefit from praise kinks by getting validation they rarely get elsewhere, reducing anxiety, and strengthening their emotional connection to their partner. It’s important to break the myth that “men don’t need compliments.” They might not ask for them (many have been taught not to), but they absolutely flourish when they get them. If your male partner has a praise kink – or you suspect he might, because he lights up when you compliment his skills or physique – know that you’re giving him a gift that goes beyond sex. You’re nurturing his self-esteem and reinforcing a positive sexual identity for him.

Tip: With men, sometimes how you praise matters. Some men might respond more to performance-based praise (“You’re so good at X”), others to body praise (“You look so hot”), others to personal praise (“I’m so lucky to have you”). Don’t assume – try a mix and see what makes his eyes darken with that telltale arousal or what makes him blush and grin. And yes, guys can blush from compliments too, and it’s adorable.

How to Explore Praise Kink

Man whispering praise in her ear

Curious to dip your toes (or dive headfirst) into affirmation-based pleasure? Exploring a praise kink should be a fun, consensual journey for everyone involved. Whether you suspect you might have a praise kink or you already know you love it and want to involve your partner, here are some step-by-step tips to guide you:

1. Reflect on Your Past Sexual Experiences

Think back: Has there been a time when a partner complimented you during sex? How did it make you feel? Did it turn you on or just make you smile? As sex educator Searah Deysach advises, ask yourself if compliments in intimate moments have sexually aroused you or if they “simply made you happy to hear” in a non-sexual way. This can help distinguish a casual enjoyment from a kink-level need. Also, recall times when you didn’t get any verbal feedback. For example, can you have awesome sex without any compliments? If you find those experiences flat or notice you longed for some praise, that ’s a sign it might be a kink for you. Self-awareness is the first step: identifying that praise = turn-on in your personal arousal pattern.

2. Consider Power Dynamics (Do You Enjoy D/s or Not?)

Praise kink often (though not always) involves a bit of power play – one giving, one receiving praise. Ask yourself how you feel about those dynamics. Rowntree, a kink educator, suggests pondering questions like: _“Do I enjoy giving up (or taking) power in a sexual context? Do I like to take the leador be directed?”_ If you lean submissive, you might fantasize about being the one earning the praise. If you lean dominant, you might get off on guiding and rewarding your partner. Also consider what kind of things you enjoy hearing or saying during sex. Are you into gentle encouragement, or more explicit profanities (in a nice way)? Clarifying this for yourself helps you communicate it later. Remember, praise play doesn’t require a formal dom/sub situation – you can totally do it as equals – but if power play excites you, you can amp it up in this kink.

3. Observe Your Relationship to Praise in Everyday Life

How do you feel when someone compliments you in general? Do you glow? Do you get bashful? Having a praise kink usually means you have a **positive association with praise overall**. If receiving compliments at work or from friends already gives you a high, that same love of praise likely extends into bed. On the flip side, if you have trouble accepting praise (maybe you feel unworthy or suspicious of it), that ’s something to note – you might need to work on accepting compliments sincerely to fully enjoy praise kink. Anne Hodder-Shipp, a sex educator, says to consider “what praise does to your brain, regardless of what it does to your genitals.” Does praise light up your brain’s happy circuits? Do you crave it? Also, you can do a bit of self-exploration by consuming erotic media: try reading erotica or watching ethical porn where praise is used and see if it arouses you. Notice in what context it turns you on – e.g., only when it’s a power dynamic, or even in romantic love scenes. This will clue you in on which aspects of praise kink resonate with you.

4. Communicate and Co-Create with Your Partner

If you have a partner, exploring praise kink is a team effort. Talk about it – ideally outside of a heated moment. It might feel awkward to bring up (“Hey babe, I kinda get turned on by compliments…”), but as Angie Rowntree says, it doesn’t have to be a heavy conversation. You could share an article or TikTok about praise kink and gauge their reaction. Or during a comfy cuddle, simply say: “I realized something that turns me on – would you be open to trying more praise when we fool around?” Be specific about what you’d like. For instance: “Remember last week when you said I looked sexy while riding you? That really did something to me… could you say things like that more?” By framing it positively (“I loved when you did X”), your partner knows it’s a compliment to them too – they’re doing good! Also ask them how they feel about it. Some people worry “Won’t it sound fake or cheesy if I start complimenting mid-sex?” Reassure them that authenticity matters more than poetry. They don’t have to sound like a romance novel; a simple “yes, just like that” in a warm tone is great. Negotiate phrases: if “good girl” makes you or them uncomfortable, find alternatives that work for both. This is the time to mention any no-go words. Maybe you love being called “princess” but hate “baby,” or vice versa. Maybe you’re okay with explicit body terms or maybe you’d prefer more emotion-based praise. Align on that. The goal is to ensure everyone feels comfortable and excited to try.

Once you agree to explore, you might start gently. For example, say “Tonight, can we experiment? I’ll give a signal or use a code word like ‘yes, please’ when I’d love some praise.” Or if you are the one giving praise, ask your partner to tell you afterward which comments they liked best, so you can learn. Enthusiastic consent is important here: you want your partner to be on board, not just doing it out of obligation. Usually, when framed as “I discovered something that really turns me on,” a caring partner will be eager to participate (who doesn’t want to turn their lover on more?). And as Tiffany Jones notes, if a partner isn’t initially into it, you can find a comfortable compromise – maybe they’re okay praising certain aspects but not using certain words, etc. Both partners should have boundaries respected, and either can pause/stop if it feels off. Keeping communication open will make this exploration a success.

5. Start with Small Doses (You Can Even Try Sexting)

If diving into verbal praise during face-to-face sex feels daunting, ease in gradually. Sexting can be a fantastic low-pressure way to test the waters. You can text your partner something flirty like, “Tell me what you love about my body” or “I wish I could hear you say what a good boy I am right now.” This allows both of you to craft your words without the heat of the moment, and you can see how it feels. Another method: when you’re being intimate but not necessarily having intercourse (say, making out or during foreplay), try slipping in a praise phrase or two. Notice your partner’s reaction (and your own). Do you both smile? Does it turn you on more? Gauge comfort. From there, you can ramp up. Maybe next time, use more frequent praise throughout the encounter. Gauge each other’s responses – are they moaning more, seem more into it? That’s a green light. If anyone giggles or seems unconvinced, pause and check in – “Was that okay? We can laugh, it’s fine if it’s a little funny!” Sometimes the first few tries will feel funny because it’s new; don’t be discouraged. A bit of laughter is actually a good sign of comfort and bonding, as long as you both then get back into it.

For the person giving praise, a tip: focus on what you genuinely are feeling in that moment about your partner and voice it. That authenticity will shine through. For the person receiving, practice saying thank you and truly accepting the praise. It can deepen the effect if you internally affirm, “Yes, they really find me hot right now,” instead of immediately deflecting or disbelieving it. Let the praise land.

6. Build Up a Repertoire Together

As you experiment, you’ll discover certain phrases or approaches that really work and others that don’t. Make mental (or actual) notes. Over time, you and your partner will develop a shared language of praise that is unique to you. Maybe you find that playful, light praise during teasing is great, but when things get raw and passionate, you crave more explicit, raw praise (“Fuck, you feel so good, I’m gonna cum so hard because of you!”). Or vice versa. Perhaps one of you really enjoys a bit of role-specific praise (“Who’s my good little ___?”) and the other prefers more I-statements (“I love it when you ___”). There’s no right or wrong – it’s about what ignites your chemistry. Consider having a debrief after a particularly hot session: “When you said X, I nearly lost it – that was amazing.” This positive feedback loop will encourage your partner to keep doing what works.

If only one of you has the pronounced praise kink, and the other is more neutral, that’s okay too. You don’t both have to need it to incorporate it. The key is the non-kink partner being willing to speak that “dialect” because it benefits their lover. Many people get into it once they see how much it turns their partner on – it becomes arousing to them to witness the effect. It can even feel empowering for the giver to know they can drive their partner wild with just a few words.

Lastly, remember to keep it fun and caring. If at any point exploring this kink triggers unexpected emotions (sometimes being praised can surface feelings if someone has self-worth struggles, etc.), take a break and talk. You can always step back, or seek guidance from a kink-aware therapist if needed. But in most cases, praise play is a very uplifting and positive experience for couples to explore. As Rowntree says, being open about what you want and finding the courage to articulate it is key to unlocking new dimensions in your sex life. So take a breath, summon that openness, and maybe start by telling your partner tonight something like: “I read about this thing called praise kink… would you like to try a little exercise in appreciating each other in bed?” You might be surprised how enthusiastically they say yes.

Praise Kink in Relationships

In the broader context of a relationship, a praise kink can be more than just a bedroom game – it can genuinely enhance intimacy and communication between partners. Here’s how incorporating praise in your relationship (sexual and otherwise) can have benefits, and some considerations to keep things healthy:

1. Strengthening Emotional Bonds: Consensual praise play inherently involves expressing positive feelings. Telling your partner “I admire how you do that” or _“I love your __” during sex can spill over into general relationship warmth. It normalizes voicing appreciation for each other, which is a cornerstone of happy couples. Many long-term couples fall into the habit of taking each other for granted, but a couple that embraces praise kink is, by default, practicing gratitude and admiration regularly. Hearing your loved one _regularly affirm that they value you_ can increase overall relationship satisfaction and trust. As one article quipped, “Who cares if you’re turning people on – this world needs more love, light and words of affirmation to heal our traumas!”. In other words, a little extra praise in the world (and in your relationship) is a good thing.

2. Improving Sexual Communication: One of the challenges in many relationships is giving feedback about sex. People can be shy to say what they like or correct what they don’t. Incorporating praise solves a part of that: you are actively guiding each other with positives. It creates a feedback-rich environment where both partners feel safe and appreciated. If one partner is consistently hearing what they’re doing right, they don’t have to anxiously second-guess in silence. Likewise, the praising partner is practicing paying attention and responding verbally – great habits for any lover. This dynamic can reduce bedroom misunderstandings. Instead of a partner wondering “Do they like this? Are they bored?”, they’ll know – because you’ve told them “that feels amazing.” In essence, praise kink encourages open sexual dialogue, just framed in a sexy way. Over time, that can make both of you much more attuned and responsive to each other’s needs.

3. Positive Reinforcement (It’s Actually Effective!): This might sound clinical, but praise is a known powerful reinforcer of behavior (just like training any skill – we’re all big monkeys at the end of the day who respond to reward). If your partner praises you every time, say, you initiate morning sex, you’re probably going to feel great about that and maybe initiate more often. If you get a “you’re incredible” whenever you try a new technique, you’ll be more eager to refine and repeat it. Rather than focusing on what’s wrong (“don’t do that ”), couples using praise focus on what’s right, thus increasing those satisfying behaviors. This can gently shape a more fulfilling sex life without a hint of nagging or criticism. It’s the opposite of the stereotypical “silent treatment” or grumbled complaints some couples fall into. Instead, you’re basically cheerleading each other to be the best lovers you can be.

4. Beware Dependency or Imbalance: A caution: it’s important that praise kink remains a consensual preference, not a one-sided obligation. Both partners’ comfort matters. If one partner has a strong praise kink and the other is neutral, the other might sometimes feel a bit like they’re performing a service (“Okay, I’ll say the lines to get them off”). To avoid resentment, the praise-loving partner should also invest in understanding what their partner gets out of the experience, and perhaps find ways to reciprocate. Maybe your partner isn’t as turned on by being praised, but they might love being physically caressed or hearing other kinds of talk. Make sure you’re trading pleasures, so both of you feel indulged. Also, check in occasionally: “Are you still cool with doing the praise thing? Is there anything you want me to say more or less of?” This keeps it collaborative. Another potential pitfall is if someone with a praise kink has very low self-esteem, they might lean on praise as a primary source of validation. It’s wonderful to heal and build confidence through a loving relationship, but it’s also important each person cultivates some self-worth independent of external praise. Otherwise, it can strain the partner who is always expected to prop up the other’s ego. Keep an eye on balance: praise kink should feel playful and mutually satisfying, not like an endless reassurance chore.

5. Use Praise Outside the Bedroom Too: Don’t limit the affirmation magic to sex. Couples who pepper their daily life with compliments tend to fare well. If praise in bed doesn’t feel awkward, it can actually make you more comfortable praising each other in general. Thank your partner for the little things, tell them they look nice randomly, etc. It creates an environment of positivity that, frankly, makes coming home (or being home together) a joy. Some couples even use low-key praise as foreplay throughout the day. For example, while your partner is cooking dinner, you sidle up and murmur, “You’re so good to me, taking care of this. You look sexy stirring that pot, by the way.” Cue a blush or a grin – and later that night, they’re already feeling warm and receptive because you’ve been building them up since 6 pm. As sexologist Chelsea Liley suggests, you can use praise as extended foreplay: a whisper of appreciation in your partner’s ear when they least expect it, just to seehow they respond. It not only may turn them on; it reinforces that they are valued for more than just sexual performance – their whole being is praise-worthy.

6. When Only One Partner Has a Praise Kink: It happens – one person might really get off on praise and the other is indifferent or doesn’t really “get it.” This is where loving compromise comes in. If you’re the partner without the kink, think of praise as a new “language” you can learn to make your loved one happy (much like learning to give the kind of touch they like). You don’t have to understand why it turns them on; trust that it does and embrace it out of generosity and curiosity. Set boundaries if needed (e.g., “I’ll call you these sexy names, but I’m not comfortable saying X, Y, Z.”). If you’re the partner with the kink and yours isn’t shared, approach the subject gently and without pressure. Like any kink, your partner has a right to say no or have limits. But often a middle ground exists – maybe they won’t be a poetic praiser, but they’re fine with dropping a few nice lines for you when you ask. Be mindful not to take advantage of their willingness; also engage in what pleasures them. Relationships are a two-way street of needs. The good news is praise is usually one of the easier kinks to fulfill (it’s free, doesn’t require gear, and doesn’t cause physical strain). Many partners are relieved when they hear “All you need to do is say nice things to me and I’ll be super turned on.” That’s a pretty sweet deal, honestly! As therapist Tiffany Jones notes, even a non-kinky partner can usually participate in a praise kink “in a manner comfortable for them” – as long as both implement boundaries and have the option to stop if anyone feels off. So keep communication open, and be ready to get creative to satisfyeach other’s needs.

7. Kink-Affirming Approach: If you’re integrating any kink into a long-term relationship, it’s wise to adopt a kink-affirming attitude. That means accepting this as a valid part of your sexuality without shame. Don’t use it as a punchline or throw it back at your partner in a fight (“Well, maybe I won’t call you good girl anymore if you’re acting like this!” – not cool). Instead, treat it as you would any preference: with respect. If either of you struggle with feeling “weird” about it, remember the earlier point: there’s nothing wrong with having a praise kink, it’s actually quitecommon and normal. If needed, read resources together (like this guide!) or literature like The New Topping Book or The New Bottoming Book, which discuss healthy kinkdynamics and communication. These can reassure both of you that incorporating kink can even strengthen your relationship through improved trust and honesty.

In conclusion, bringing praise kink into your relationship can be a beautiful way to boost both your sexual satisfaction and emotional connection. It’s about more than just getting off – it’s about creating a culture of mutual appreciation. Eroticism in long-term relationships thrives on creativity and genuine connection. By making praise part of your erotic play, you’re injecting both. You’re saying, “I see you, I admire you, and I desire you,” all at once. That’s a powerful message for any lover to hear. As long as you both continue to communicate and put each other’s comfort first, a praise kink can indeed become a secret superpower of your relationship – a source of joy, closeness, and of course, toe-curling pleasure.

FAQs

Q: Is having a praise kink normal?
A: Absolutely – praise kinks are quite common and nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, 71% of respondents in one informal survey said that being praised by a partner turns them on. Enjoying praise is a natural extension of enjoying positive feedback. It only becomes a “kink” in the sense that it’s a specific thing that flips your erotic switch. There’s a huge online community (often tagged #PraiseKink or #PraiseK1nk) sharing memes and tips, so you’re in good company. Sex therapists consider it a healthy preference as long as it’s consensual. It doesn’t involve any harmful or risky behavior – just words of affirmation. So, embrace it as a normal part of your unique sexual makeup.

Q: How do I tell my partner I have a praise kink?
A: Honesty and a bit of vulnerability. You might start by asking them what kind of talk they enjoy during sex, and share what you enjoy. Say something like, “I’ve noticed I get really turned on when you compliment me or talk about what you like in bed. I think I have a bit of a praise kink – hearing ‘good girl’ or stuff like that really does it for me.” You can mention that you recently read about it (e.g., “Apparently it’s a thing lots of people have!”). If you suspect your partner might not understand, framing it in familiar terms helps: “You know how some people like dirty talk? For me, the version of dirty talk I like is, well… being sweet-talked.” You could even share an article or a TikTok on the topic and say “this made me think of us, what do you think?”. The key is to communicate that this is something pleasurable for you, and invite them to try it if they’re comfortable. Emphasize there’s no pressure, and you’re open to hearing what they might want more of in return. Most caring partners will appreciate the guidance (hey, you’re giving them the “cheat code” to turn you on more!). Keeping the tone light and positive – this is good news, not a confession of something bad – will make the conversation easier.

Q: Can I have both a praise kink and a degradation kink?
A: Yes, many people do. Kinks aren’t mutually exclusive. It might sound contradictory – liking compliments and insults – but it’s more common than you’d think. Often it’s context-dependent or mood-dependent. For instance, you might enjoy a rough, degrading scenario during one encounter, but at another time you crave gentle praise. Some individuals even like to mix them in one scene, as discussed earlier (e.g., the brat scenario where the payoff for enduring insults is to finally receive praise). Think of it as enjoying a range of flavors: sweet and spicy. As long as both partners are clear on the script (“This is a scene where I call you names” vs “this is a scene where I shower you with praise”), you can explore both. In fact, alternating between the two can heighten the intensity – the praise feels even more rewarding after denial or humiliation, and the humiliation can feel more intense if you know later you might be redeemed with praise. But you don’t have to like both. It’s perfectly fine to stick to just praise if degradation play isn’t your cup of tea.

Q: My partner says they feel silly giving praise or that it doesn’t come naturally. Any tips?
A: It’s not uncommon for someone to feel a bit awkward initially – not everyone is automatically a smooth talker in bed. Encourage them that it’s okay to start small and use their own authentic language. It doesn’t have to sound like Shakespeare or a porn script. Perhaps suggest they start by simply voicing what they’re feeling: “tell me how it feels for you,” or “tell me what you like about what I’m doing.” Even a shy partner can manage a “that feels so good” if it indeed feels good. You can also set the stage outside the moment: maybe you each write down 3 phrases that you’d love to hear, and your partner can choose from those during sex – sort of like a cheat sheet. Practice can make it more natural. Another approach: use roleplay or even silly voices as a crutch – it sounds counterintuitive, but sometimes playing a character (“Professor praising student” voice) can free someone from self-consciousness. And remind them, feedback goes both ways. So when they do offer praise, respond positively! Let them see it’s turning you on (“God, I love when you say that!”) – that will reinforce them, building their confidence to do it more. If all else fails, sometimes doing it via text first (sexting) can help them find their style in writing, which then is easier to speak aloud later. Patience and a sense of humor carry a lot of weight here; laugh off any clunky attempts and sincerely thank your partner for trying. Over time, with positive reinforcement (and seeing the effect on you), most people get more comfortable.

Q: Does having a praise kink mean I have low self-esteem or daddy/mommy issues?
A: Not necessarily. There’s a stereotype that any kink, including praise, must stem from some psychological deficiency or trauma, but research doesn’t really back that up. Plenty of people with perfectly normal upbringing and self-esteem have praise kinks – they just enjoy it. Humans are diverse in what turns our crank. Sure, in some cases as we discussed, a lack of early praise or certain attachment dynamics might contribute to why praise feels sointense for someone. But it doesn’t mean something is “wrong” with you. In fact, kink-aware therapists argue that consensual kinks are often a healthy part of one’s sexuality, not a symptom of pathology. If anything, engaging in a praise kink can be beneficial: it can reinforce a positive self-image and heal old wounds by giving you the validation you deserved all along. The main thing is balance – enjoy the boost praise gives you, but also cultivate the ability to validate yourself from within. And if you ever feel your well-being is entirely dependent on getting praise, it might be good to talk to a therapist to build some internal coping, just so that it remains a fun enhancement rather than a crutch. But for the vast majority: loving praise is just a personal turn-on, not a red flag.

Q: We tried praise play, but my partner and I felt awkward and laughed. Did we mess it up?
A: Not at all! Laughter is a normal part of learning any new sexual communication. Think of it like trying a new position and fumbling – you giggle, reposition, and try again. What’s important is that you both felt safe enough to laugh. In fact, sex should be fun. The giggles show you’re comfortable. Take it in stride: maybe have a little laugh, then refocus. You might say, “Okay, that was kind of silly, but I did like when you said X. Let’s keep that part.” Over time, as you get used to it, the awkwardness will fade. One tip: set aside a dedicated “let’s practice this kink” session where it’s understood that anything can be paused and laughed about without hard feelings. This takes pressure off a serious encounter. Another tip: try doing it in the dark or with eyes closed. Removing visual self-consciousness can sometimes make it easier to speak freely. Remember, even seasoned kinksters sometimes have scenes that turn into giggle-fests – it’s human. Don’t interpret laughter as failure; it’s just part of the learning curve. If anything, a shared laugh can increase intimacy, because you’re navigating something new together. So shake it off and give it another go. You can even say, “Alright, laughing time over – now I’m going to seriously tell you how amazing you are,” which in itself sets a playful yet earnest tone.

Q: Are there any resources you recommend for learning more?
A: Yes! Since praise kink intersects with general BDSM and communication skills, some classic resources can help. The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy are excellent for understanding the emotional aspects of power-play and communication. They give insight into why topping and bottoming (which praise dynamics often fall under) are about more than just technique – it’s about trust and mutual joy. Another great read is The Ultimate Guide to Kink (ed. Tristan Taormino), which has essays on various kinks – while I don’t recall a specific chapter on praise, it covers communication and headspace which are relevant. For a more psychology angle, “The Psychology of Kink” (an academic study by S. Ten Brink et al., 2020) provides data on attachment stylesand kink preferences. And if you’re into podcasts, there are episodes by sex educators (like American Sex Podcast or Multiamory) that discuss praise kinks and affirmation during sex – hearing others talk about it can normalize it further. Online forums like Reddit’s r/BDSMcommunity or r/sex also have threads where people share their favorite praise lines or experiences – sometimes you pick up new ideas or realize “wow, others feel this too.” Finally, if you prefer a more narrative approach, check out erotic fiction or romance novels that feature praise kink (search terms like “praise” on sites like Literotica or look for tags in spicy romance). They can give you a sense of how praise can be woven into a sexy scene, which might inspire your own adventures (just remember fiction can be a bit idealized). The bottom line: there’s plenty out there, but you already have a great tool – the person you’re with. Keep communicating and co-creating your own guide as you go!

Closing thought: Praise kink, at its heart, is about celebrating your partner and yourself. In a world that often focuses on flaws and critiques, it’s a refreshing change to focus on pleasure, pride, and positivity in our most intimate moments. Eroticism flourishes in an environment of curiosity, safety, and play. By infusing sex with affirmations, you create a safe harbor for desire – a place where both of you can let down your guard and bask in mutual appreciation. Whether you’re a seasoned kinkster or a curious beginner, affirmation-based pleasure can add a deeply fulfilling dimension to your sex life. So go on – embrace the power of praise. You just might find that a few kind words can lead to mind-blowing experiences.

And to that we say: good job and enjoy! 💖