How to Be a Service Submissive: Guide to Acts of Service
Discover the fulfilling world of service submission, from domestic duties to emotional support. Learn how to develop your service skills while maintaining healthy boundaries.
Roles
Discover the diverse roles within BDSM dynamics and how they shape relationships, power exchanges, and erotic expression.
Roles in BDSM define how individuals engage in power dynamics, emotional connection, and erotic play. From dominant to submissive, and everything in between, this section explores the unique responsibilities, joys, and challenges of various roles.
What's Covered in This Section
Femdom
Explore the world of female dominance, where empowerment meets erotic creativity. From beginner's guides to understanding what femdom truly means.
Soft Femdom
Discover nurturing approaches to female dominance that combine authority with care and emotional connection.
Gentle Domination
Learn about softer, nurturing approaches to dominance that blend tenderness with authority. Explore soft dom meaning and daddy dom dynamics.
Submission
Delve into the art of yielding power, embracing vulnerability, and finding strength in surrender. From types of submissives to training guides.
Understanding your role, or exploring new ones, is a journey of self-discovery. Use these guides to navigate roles with authenticity and intention. For foundational concepts, review our BDSM fundamentals and protocol guides.
Articles in this section
How to Dominate a Man: Complete Guide to Femdom Confidence
Learn how to confidently dominate a man with trust-based power play, verbal commands, physical techniques, and emotional connection in the bedroom.
How to Be a Good Submissive: A Complete Guide to Great D/s
Master the art of submission with expert guidance on communication, consistency, anticipation, and avoiding common mistakes in D/s relationships.
Topping from the Bottom: What It Really Means
Understand topping from the bottom in BDSM: when it's problematic, when it's consensual, and how to navigate power dynamics as a submissive bottom.
What Is a Switch? Complete Guide to Versatile BDSM Roles
Discover what it means to be a switch in BDSM, how to navigate relationships as a versatile partner, and tips for healthy power exchange dynamics.
Femdom Facesitting Guide
Master the art of facesitting femdom with this complete guide covering techniques, positions, psychology, power dynamics, and essential safety protocols.
Submissive Top: Understanding Service Top Dynamics
Discover what it means to be a submissive or service top in BDSM, including scene ideas and communication tips for this unique dynamic.
What is a gay bottom?
Understanding gay submissive and sub bottom roles: how top/bottom differs from Dom/sub, power bottoms, and navigating LGBTQ+ BDSM dynamics.
Types of Submissives: Guide to Different Sub Styles
Explore the diverse types of submissives in BDSM: from service subs and brats to rope bunnies, littles, and masochists.
Sissy Bondage: Roleplay and Scene Ideas
Discover how sissy bondage blends feminization, submission, and roleplay into a safe, collaborative erotic script. Learn scene structures, safety essentials, negotiation tips, and aftercare practices that make this complex kink affirming and connecting.
Dominatrix Lingerie: Fabrics, Fits & How to Style a Scene
From latex’s sculptural shine to lace’s subtle transparency, dominatrix lingerie is more than aesthetics, it’s a tool for psychological distance, ritual, and erotic theater. Learn how fabrics, fit, and styling choices shape power dynamics while honoring comfort, consent, and safety.
What Is A Size Queen: Meaning and How to Please Them
Discover what it means to be a 'size queen', a term for those who enjoy larger-than-average partners or toys. From science on size and pleasure, to cultural context, BDSM practices, and communication strategies, this guide unpacks the psychology, safety, and intimacy around size preferences.
65 Mommy Domme Phrases to Melt Your Little
A curated list of 65 nurturing, teasing, and erotically playful phrases for Mommy-Domme caregiver/little scenes. Use them to weave tenderness, authority, and delicious anticipation into your soft-femdom play.
65 Soft Femdom Phrases
Transform an ordinary evening into a tender power-play adventure. These 65 phrases, grouped from summoning to aftercare, infuse everyday moments with gentle dominance, loving praise, playful denial, and soothing reassurance.
Should I try Femdom?
Discover the emotional depth of soft femdom. This guide explores the psychological benefits for both partners, the growth opportunities for dommes and subs, and the common challenges couples may face in balancing intimacy, vulnerability, and societal expectations.
30+ Gentle & Soft Dom Scene Ideas for Couples
Explore over 30 soft Dom scene ideas for couples, consent-forward, intimate, and lightly kinky. From morning rituals to sensory play, build your dynamic with tenderness, structure, and emotional connection.
What is Femdom? The Complete Guide to Female-Led Relationships
Curious about female-led dynamics? This in-depth guide to Femdom explores what it means for a woman to lead in the bedroom or the relationship. From psychology and relationship types to rules, rituals, and erotic practices, you'll learn how to build a fulfilling, consensual Female-Led Relationship (FLR).
Daddy Dom Meaning: A Gentle Guide to DD/lg Relationships
Discover the nurturing world of Daddy Dom/little girl dynamics. Learn about the caring dominance, trust, and consensual power exchange that define DD/lg relationships, plus practical guidance for exploring this intimate dynamic safely.
Earning Your Collar: Week 5 - Arousal & Protocol Mastery
A deep dive into maintaining enthusiasm, staying constantly aroused, and seamlessly shifting between casual, moderate, and high-protocol submission.
Earning Your Collar: Week 4 - Advanced Submissive Training
A comprehensive guide to mastering rope, restraints, stress positions, and fetish gear management as a devoted submissive.