Types of Submissives: Guide to Different Sub Styles
Explore the diverse types of submissives in BDSM: from service subs and brats to rope bunnies, littles, and masochists.
Roles
Discover the diverse roles within BDSM dynamics and how they shape relationships, power exchanges, and erotic expression.
Roles in BDSM define how individuals engage in power dynamics, emotional connection, and erotic play. From dominant to submissive, and everything in between, this section explores the unique responsibilities, joys, and challenges of various roles.
What's Covered in This Section
Femdom
Explore the world of female dominance, where empowerment meets erotic creativity.
Gentle Domination
Learn about softer, nurturing approaches to dominance that blend tenderness with authority.
Submission
Delve into the art of yielding power, embracing vulnerability, and finding strength in surrender.
Understanding your role, or exploring new ones, is a journey of self-discovery. Use these guides to navigate roles with authenticity and intention.
Articles in this section
Sissy Bondage: Roleplay and Scene Ideas
Discover how sissy bondage blends feminization, submission, and roleplay into a safe, collaborative erotic script. Learn scene structures, safety essentials, negotiation tips, and aftercare practices that make this complex kink affirming and connecting.
Dominatrix Lingerie: Fabrics, Fits & How to Style a Scene
From latex’s sculptural shine to lace’s subtle transparency, dominatrix lingerie is more than aesthetics, it’s a tool for psychological distance, ritual, and erotic theater. Learn how fabrics, fit, and styling choices shape power dynamics while honoring comfort, consent, and safety.
What Is A Size Queen: Meaning, Context & FAQs
Discover what it means to be a 'size queen', a term for those who enjoy larger-than-average partners or toys. From science on size and pleasure, to cultural context, BDSM practices, and communication strategies, this guide unpacks the psychology, safety, and intimacy around size preferences.
65 Mommy Domme Phrases to Melt Your Little
A curated list of 65 nurturing, teasing, and erotically playful phrases for Mommy-Domme caregiver/little scenes. Use them to weave tenderness, authority, and delicious anticipation into your soft-femdom play.
65 Soft Femdom Phrases
Transform an ordinary evening into a tender power-play adventure. These 65 phrases, grouped from summoning to aftercare, infuse everyday moments with gentle dominance, loving praise, playful denial, and soothing reassurance.
Should I try Femdom?
Discover the emotional depth of soft femdom. This guide explores the psychological benefits for both partners, the growth opportunities for dommes and subs, and the common challenges couples may face in balancing intimacy, vulnerability, and societal expectations.
30+ Gentle & Soft Dom Scene Ideas for Couples
Explore over 30 soft Dom scene ideas for couples, consent-forward, intimate, and lightly kinky. From morning rituals to sensory play, build your dynamic with tenderness, structure, and emotional connection.
What is Femdom? The Complete Guide to Female-Led Relationships
Curious about female-led dynamics? This in-depth guide to Femdom explores what it means for a woman to lead in the bedroom or the relationship. From psychology and relationship types to rules, rituals, and erotic practices, you'll learn how to build a fulfilling, consensual Female-Led Relationship (FLR).
Daddy Dom Meaning: A Gentle Guide to DD/lg Relationships
Discover the nurturing world of Daddy Dom/little girl dynamics. Learn about the caring dominance, trust, and consensual power exchange that define DD/lg relationships, plus practical guidance for exploring this intimate dynamic safely.
Earning Your Collar: Week 5 - Arousal & Protocol Mastery
A deep dive into maintaining enthusiasm, staying constantly aroused, and seamlessly shifting between casual, moderate, and high-protocol submission.
Earning Your Collar: Week 4 - Advanced Submissive Training
A comprehensive guide to mastering rope, restraints, stress positions, and fetish gear management as a devoted submissive.
Earning Your Collar: Week 3 - Submissive Training Guide
The ultimate test of submission: refine your skills, elevate your servitude, and become the perfect sexual thrall.
Ultimate soft dom scene planning guide
Extensive guide to bring soft Dom dynamics into daily life, structured, tender, and hot.
Earning Your Collar: Week Two Training Guide for Submissives
Advanced training for submissives: refine your servitude, perfect your skills, and deepen your devotion.
Soft Femdom for Beginners: 15 Gentle Ways to Dominate Your Partner
Explore the tender side of female domination with this comprehensive guide to soft femdom. Learn about gentle dominance dynamics, emotional connection, communication strategies, and how to build loving power exchange relationships that prioritize trust and intimacy.
How to Be a Bratty Sub: A Complete Guide
Discover the art of brattiness in BDSM, where playful resistance and consensual defiance create a dynamic and intimate power exchange. Learn how to negotiate, tease, and thrive as a bratty sub while deepening trust and connection.
Earning Your Collar: Week one training guide for submissives
A complete blueprint for your first week of submissive training.
Soft Dom Meaning: A Complete Guide to Gentle Domination
Discover the art of gentle domination with this comprehensive guide to soft domming. Learn key characteristics, benefits, and tips for building a nurturing, empowering dynamic.
Mommy Dom Guide: What It Means & How to Be One
Explore the nurturing world of Mommy Doms - where maternal care meets dominant authority in consensual power exchange.