Journal & Reflections

The most meaningful growth happens when you pause to reflect. The Journal feature captures your intimate journey through personalized prompts that adapt to your exploration—asking the right questions at the right moments to deepen your self-understanding. Process what you've discovered, track how your preferences evolve, and create a private record of your path to greater intimacy. These aren't generic prompts; they're crafted just for you, based on what you've explored. Your future self will thank you for the insights.

What is the Journal?

The Journal provides:

  • AI-generated prompts personalized to your activity ratings
  • Space for reflection to process your thoughts and feelings
  • Private entries that only you can see
  • Progress tracking of your self-discovery journey

How Journal Prompts Work

When Prompts Appear

You'll receive journal prompts after:

  • Rating activities in a category
  • Completing a subcategory exploration
  • Finishing certain quizzes
  • Reaching exploration milestones

Personalized Prompts

Prompts are tailored based on:

  • Which activities you rated highly (loved/liked)
  • Which activities you passed on
  • Patterns in your preferences
  • Your exploration history

Example Prompts

Prompts might include:

  • "You showed interest in several sensory activities. What draws you to these experiences?"
  • "You passed on activities involving [category]. What boundaries are important to you here?"
  • "Of the activities you loved in this category, which would you most want to try first?"

Responding to Prompts

Writing a Response

  1. Read the personalized prompt
  2. Tap the text area to start writing
  3. Write your thoughts (up to 500 characters)
  4. Tap Save to record your entry

Skipping Prompts

Not ready to reflect? You can:

  • Tap Skip to dismiss the prompt
  • The prompt may return later
  • No penalty for skipping

Character Limit

Responses are limited to 500 characters:

  • Enough for meaningful reflection
  • Encourages focused, thoughtful writing
  • Saves automatically as you type

Viewing Your Journal

Accessing Entries

  1. Go to Profile > Journal (or find in Labs)
  2. View all saved entries
  3. Entries show:
    • The prompt
    • Your response
    • Date written
    • Related activity context

Organizing Entries

Entries are organized by:

  • Date - Most recent first
  • Category - Grouped by activity category
  • Type - Prompt type (activity, quiz, milestone)

Searching Entries

Find specific entries:

  1. Tap the search icon
  2. Enter keywords
  3. Results show matching entries

Entry Types

Activity Reflections

Prompted after rating activities:

  • Based on your specific ratings
  • References activities you engaged with
  • Helps process why you rated as you did

Quiz Reflections

Prompted after completing quizzes:

  • Based on your quiz results
  • Encourages deeper thinking about outcomes
  • Connects results to your journey

Milestone Reflections

Prompted at exploration milestones:

  • After completing a category
  • At activity count achievements
  • During meaningful progress points

Privacy & Security

Who Can See My Journal?

Your journal is completely private:

  • Only visible to you
  • Not shared with partners
  • Not visible to BeMoreKinky staff
  • End-to-end encrypted

Data Security

  • Entries stored securely on our servers
  • Backed up to prevent loss
  • Accessible only with your account
  • Deleted if you delete your account

Editing and Deleting

Editing Entries

To modify an existing entry:

  1. Open the entry you want to edit
  2. Tap Edit
  3. Make your changes
  4. Save the updated entry

Deleting Entries

To remove an entry:

  1. Open the entry
  2. Tap Delete
  3. Confirm deletion
  4. Entry is permanently removed

Note: Deleted entries cannot be recovered.

Benefits of Journaling

Self-Discovery

Regular reflection helps you:

  • Understand your preferences more deeply
  • Identify patterns in what you enjoy
  • Process emotions around intimacy
  • Track personal growth over time

Partner Communication

Journal insights can help you:

  • Articulate desires more clearly
  • Prepare for conversations with partners
  • Understand your boundaries
  • Express needs more effectively

Progress Tracking

Looking back shows:

  • How your preferences have evolved
  • Boundaries that have shifted
  • Confidence that has grown
  • Journey milestones achieved

Tips for Effective Reflection

Be Honest

  • Write for yourself, not an audience
  • There are no "right" answers
  • Authenticity leads to better insights
  • You can always delete later

Write Regularly

  • Respond to prompts when they appear
  • Fresh thoughts are often most valuable
  • Regular practice builds the habit
  • Even short entries add up

Review Periodically

  • Look back at old entries monthly
  • Notice patterns and changes
  • Celebrate growth
  • Learn from past insights

Common Questions

Q: Can my partner see my journal entries?

A: No. Journal entries are completely private and never shared with partners or anyone else.

Q: How many entries can I save?

A: There's no limit to saved entries. Write as much as you like.

Q: Can I write entries without a prompt?

A: Currently, entries are prompt-based. The prompts help guide meaningful reflection. Unprompted journaling may be added in future updates.

Q: What happens to my journal if I delete my account?

A: All journal entries are permanently deleted when you delete your account.

Q: Are prompts the same for everyone?

A: No. Prompts are personalized based on your specific activity ratings and exploration history. Everyone's prompts are different.

Q: Can I export my journal?

A: Use Profile > Data & Privacy > Export Data to download your data, which includes journal entries.

Q: Why didn't I get a prompt after rating activities?

A: Prompts appear after completing a full subcategory, not after every rating. Keep rating to trigger prompts.

Troubleshooting

Prompt Not Appearing

  1. Complete the full subcategory (rate all activities)
  2. Ensure you're connected to internet
  3. Pull down to refresh
  4. The prompt may appear on your next session

Entry Not Saving

  1. Check internet connection
  2. Ensure you're within character limit
  3. Tap Save explicitly (don't just close)
  4. Wait a moment for sync confirmation

Can't Find Old Entries

  1. Check all filter options
  2. Try searching for keywords
  3. Scroll through the full list
  4. Entries are sorted by date—check older dates

Journal Section Missing

  1. The feature may be in Labs or Profile depending on version
  2. Update to the latest app version
  3. Check if you have entries (shows only when content exists)
  4. Contact support if consistently missing