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Punishment & Rewards Wheel (Labs Feature)

Let fate decide. The Spin Wheel adds thrilling unpredictability to your dynamic—load it with punishments, rewards, or a tantalizing mix of both, then spin to see what destiny has in store. It's perfect for breaking decision paralysis, adding stakes to games, or simply injecting spontaneous excitement into your routine. Customize every option, use our templates for inspiration, and watch anticipation build with every spin. Sometimes the best experiences are the ones you didn't plan.

Note: This is a Labs feature with premium options for expanded functionality.


What is the Spin Wheel?

The Spin Wheel is a customizable spinner that:

  • Randomly selects from items you've added
  • Can be used for punishments, rewards, or both
  • Adds playful unpredictability to your dynamic
  • Tracks spin history

Setting Up Your Wheel

Minimum Requirements

To spin the wheel, you need:

  • At least 4 items total
  • Items can be all punishments, all rewards, or a mix

Adding Items

  1. Go to Labs > Punishment/Rewards Wheel
  2. Tap Manage Items or the gear icon
  3. Tap Add Item
  4. Enter the item details:
    • Name - What the item is
    • Type - Punishment or Reward
    • Description (optional) - Additional details
  5. Save the item

Item Examples

Punishments:

  • 10 minutes of corner time
  • Write lines
  • Denied dessert
  • Extra chores

Rewards:

  • Choose the movie tonight
  • 15-minute massage
  • Sleep in tomorrow
  • Favorite meal for dinner

Using Templates

Quick Setup with Templates

Don't want to create items from scratch?

  1. Tap Use Template
  2. Browse available template packs
  3. Preview template items
  4. Select a template to import
  5. Items are added to your wheel

Template Categories

Templates are organized by theme:

  • Mild punishments
  • Playful rewards
  • Service-oriented items
  • Sensation-based items

Customizing Imported Items

After importing a template:

  • Edit any item to personalize
  • Delete items that don't fit
  • Add your own items
  • Mix and match from multiple templates

Wheel Modes

Punishments Only

Spin shows only punishment items:

  1. Tap Mode selector
  2. Choose Punishments Only
  3. Spin to land on a punishment

Rewards Only

Spin shows only reward items:

  1. Tap Mode selector
  2. Choose Rewards Only
  3. Spin to land on a reward

Mixed Mode

Both punishments and rewards on the wheel:

  1. Tap Mode selector
  2. Choose Mixed
  3. Spin for either outcome
  4. Adds extra unpredictability

Spinning the Wheel

How to Spin

  1. Ensure you have at least 4 items
  2. Select your desired mode
  3. Tap the Spin button
  4. Watch the wheel rotate
  5. Wait for it to stop
  6. View your result!

The Result Modal

When the wheel stops:

  • Result is displayed in a modal
  • Shows the selected item name
  • Shows item description (if any)
  • Option to spin again
  • Option to close

Spin Dynamics

  • Wheel spin is random
  • Each item has equal probability
  • Previous spins don't affect future spins
  • Truly random selection

Managing Items

Editing Items

  1. Go to Manage Items
  2. Find the item to edit
  3. Tap the edit icon
  4. Make changes
  5. Save

Deleting Items

  1. Go to Manage Items
  2. Find the item to delete
  3. Tap the delete icon
  4. Confirm deletion

Note: Maintain at least 4 items to keep spinning.

Viewing All Items

The item management screen shows:

  • All items organized by type
  • Punishment count and reward count
  • Easy add/edit/delete access

Spin History

Tracking Past Spins

The wheel records your spin history:

  • What result was selected
  • When the spin occurred
  • Spin mode used

Viewing History

  1. Tap History on the wheel screen
  2. See chronological list of spins
  3. View patterns and frequency

Why Track History?

  • Ensure variety over time
  • See which items come up most
  • Reference past session activities
  • Settle any "that never comes up" debates

Free vs. Premium

Free Tier Limits

Free users can:

  • Add up to X punishments
  • Add up to X rewards
  • Access basic templates
  • View limited history

Premium Benefits

Premium subscribers enjoy:

  • Unlimited items - No cap on punishments or rewards
  • All templates - Access to premium template packs
  • Full history - Complete spin history
  • Custom themes - Wheel color customization

Common Questions

Q: Is the wheel truly random?

A: Yes. Each spin is randomly determined with equal probability for all visible items in the current mode.

Q: Can I weight certain items to appear more often?

A: Not currently. All items have equal chance. You could add duplicates of an item to increase its probability.

Q: Can my partner and I share a wheel?

A: The wheel is tied to your account. Partners can each have their own wheel with different items, or one partner can manage the wheel for both.

Q: What if I don't want to do what it lands on?

A: The wheel is for fun! You can always spin again, negotiate, or use the result as a starting point for discussion.

Q: Can I create category-specific wheels?

A: Currently there's one wheel. Use modes (punishments/rewards/mixed) to filter what appears. Multiple wheels may be added in future updates.

Q: Does the wheel work offline?

A: Basic spinning works offline, but history syncing and template downloads require internet.

Q: Can I share my wheel setup with others?

A: There's no direct sharing feature. You could screenshot your item list to share ideas.


Creative Uses

For Punishments

  • Consequence for broken rules
  • Random selection when multiple apply
  • Adding unpredictability to discipline
  • Gamifying accountability

For Rewards

  • Random treat selection
  • Choosing between earned rewards
  • Surprise reward for good behavior
  • Date night activity selection

Mixed Mode Ideas

  • High-stakes spin (risk vs. reward)
  • Random "what happens next" in scenes
  • Unpredictable session elements
  • Breaking decision paralysis

Troubleshooting

Wheel Won't Spin

  1. Verify you have at least 4 items
  2. Check items match your selected mode
  3. Refresh the screen
  4. Restart the app

Items Not Saving

  1. Check internet connection
  2. Ensure fields are properly filled
  3. Don't exceed character limits
  4. Wait for save confirmation

Template Not Importing

  1. Check internet connection
  2. Verify you haven't hit item limits (free tier)
  3. Try importing fewer items
  4. Premium may be required for some templates

History Not Showing

  1. Pull down to refresh
  2. Check internet connection
  3. Free tier may have limited history
  4. Spins need time to sync

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