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Daily Play & Intimacy Proposals

Keep the spark alive, every single day. Daily Play makes intimate connection a natural part of your routine with gentle daily prompts that keep desire front of mind. Select what sounds exciting today, see if your partner's choice matches yours, and turn ordinary days into opportunities for connection. It takes just seconds but keeps you both thinking about each other—and about what's possible. Busy lives don't have to mean disconnected relationships. Daily Play makes sure of that.


What is Daily Play?

Daily Play is a feature that:

  • Presents daily suggestions for intimate activities
  • Helps maintain regular communication with your partner
  • Tracks your daily selections and responses
  • Makes proposing activities quick and easy

Daily Play Overview

Accessing Daily Play

  1. Go to the Play tab
  2. View the Daily Overview section
  3. See today's suggested activity or prompt

What You'll See

The Daily Play screen shows:

  • Today's suggested activity or prompt
  • Your selection status (have you chosen?)
  • Partner's response (if applicable)
  • Quick actions to respond

Choosing Your Daily Activity

Making a Selection

  1. View the daily prompt or suggested activities
  2. Choose an activity you're interested in
  3. Tap to select it as your daily choice
  4. Your selection is saved and visible to your partner

Selection Options

You might:

  • Choose from suggested activities
  • Browse your rated activities
  • Select from matched interests with partner
  • Pass on the day's selection

How Daily Selection Works

Your Daily Choice

Each day, you can:

  • Select one activity as your "choice of the day"
  • Change your selection until a certain time
  • See if it matches your partner's choice

Partner Matching

When both partners make selections:

  • Match! - You both chose the same or compatible activities
  • Different choices - You can see what each chose
  • Discussion points - Differences can spark conversation

Daily Reset

  • Selections reset each day
  • Previous days become history
  • New suggestions appear daily

Creating Quick Proposals

From Daily Selection

Turn your daily selection into a proposal:

  1. Make your daily selection
  2. Tap Propose This
  3. Add date/time and notes
  4. Send to your partner

This streamlined flow makes frequent proposals easy.

The Propose Play Screen

For more detailed proposals:

  1. Tap Create Proposal
  2. Select activities (daily selection pre-filled)
  3. Add custom notes
  4. Use the AI Message Generator (Premium) for help writing
  5. Set a proposed date/time
  6. Choose your role for the session
  7. Send to partner

AI Message Generator

What It Does

Premium feature that helps write proposal messages:

  • Generates thoughtful, engaging text
  • Based on selected activities
  • Customizable tone and style
  • Saves time on writing

Using the AI Generator

  1. Select your activities
  2. Tap AI Generate button
  3. Review the generated message
  4. Edit as needed
  5. Include in your proposal

Note: This feature may require Premium and is feature-gated.


Responding to Proposals

When You Receive a Proposal

  1. You'll get a notification
  2. Open the proposal from Play tab
  3. Review the suggested activities, date, and notes

Response Options

| Option | What It Does | |--------|--------------| | Accept | Agree to the proposal as-is | | Suggest Changes | Counter with modifications | | Decline | Not interested this time | | Reschedule | Interested but different time |

Counter-Proposing

If you like the idea but want changes:

  1. Tap Suggest Changes
  2. Modify activities, date, or notes
  3. Send your counter-proposal
  4. Partner reviews and responds

Role Selection

Choosing Your Role

For certain proposals, you can specify roles:

  • Dominant - You'll lead the session
  • Submissive - Your partner leads
  • Switch - Roles may vary or switch during
  • Unspecified - Leave it open

Role in Proposals

When creating a proposal:

  1. Go to role selection screen
  2. Choose your preferred role
  3. This helps set expectations

Play History

Viewing Past Sessions

Go to Play > History to see:

  • All past proposals (accepted and completed)
  • Dates and activities
  • Notes that were included
  • Historical record of your intimate life

Using History

History helps you:

  • Remember what you've explored
  • Find activities to repeat
  • Avoid repetition if desired
  • Track your journey together

History as Templates

Past sessions can become templates:

  1. Open a past session
  2. Tap Use as Template
  3. Creates a new proposal with same activities
  4. Adjust date and notes
  5. Send

Daily Play Settings

Notification Preferences

Control daily play notifications:

  1. Go to Profile > Notifications
  2. Find Daily Play category
  3. Toggle:
    • Daily prompts
    • Partner selection alerts
    • Match notifications

Selection Reminders

Enable reminders to make your daily selection:

  • Morning reminder
  • Evening reminder
  • Custom time

Common Questions

Q: Do I have to make a daily selection?

A: No, it's optional. Daily Play is designed to encourage regular communication, but there's no requirement.

Q: What time does the daily selection reset?

A: Selections reset at midnight in your local timezone.

Q: Can I see my partner's selection before making mine?

A: Typically, selections are revealed simultaneously or after both have chosen, to encourage independent choices.

Q: What if my partner and I never match?

A: Different preferences are normal! Use mismatches as conversation starters about what you each enjoy.

Q: Can I turn off Daily Play entirely?

A: You can disable daily play notifications and simply not use the feature. The tab remains but won't prompt you.

Q: How is Daily Play different from regular proposals?

A: Daily Play is lighter-weight and daily-focused. Regular proposals are for specific scheduled sessions with more detail.

Q: Does Daily Play work without a partner?

A: The selection feature works solo, but matching and proposals require a partner connection.


Tips for Daily Play

Making It a Habit

  • Set a daily reminder
  • Make selections at the same time each day
  • Discuss matches with your partner
  • Use it as a conversation starter

Getting More From It

  • Be honest in your selections
  • Try new activities occasionally
  • Review your patterns over time
  • Use it to stay connected even when busy

For Busy Couples

  • Quick selections take just seconds
  • Don't feel pressured to propose every day
  • Use it to stay in touch about desires
  • Quality over quantity

Troubleshooting

Daily Prompt Not Appearing

  1. Pull down to refresh the Play tab
  2. Check your internet connection
  3. Ensure you're logged in
  4. Wait for the new day to begin (midnight)

Selection Not Saving

  1. Check internet connectivity
  2. Make sure you tapped to confirm
  3. Don't navigate away too quickly
  4. Pull down to refresh and check

Partner's Selection Not Showing

  1. They may not have made a selection yet
  2. Check selection reveal timing
  3. Pull down to refresh
  4. Ask partner if they've selected

Can't Send Proposal

  1. Verify you have an active partnership
  2. Check if you've hit proposal limits (free tier)
  3. Ensure all required fields are filled
  4. Check internet connection

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