Daily Play & Intimacy Proposals
Keep the spark alive, every single day. Daily Play makes intimate connection a natural part of your routine with gentle daily prompts that keep desire front of mind. Select what sounds exciting today, see if your partner's choice matches yours, and turn ordinary days into opportunities for connection. It takes just seconds but keeps you both thinking about each other—and about what's possible. Busy lives don't have to mean disconnected relationships. Daily Play makes sure of that.
What is Daily Play?
Daily Play is a feature that:
- Presents daily suggestions for intimate activities
- Helps maintain regular communication with your partner
- Tracks your daily selections and responses
- Makes proposing activities quick and easy
Daily Play Overview
Accessing Daily Play
- Go to the Play tab
- View the Daily Overview section
- See today's suggested activity or prompt
What You'll See
The Daily Play screen shows:
- Today's suggested activity or prompt
- Your selection status (have you chosen?)
- Partner's response (if applicable)
- Quick actions to respond
Choosing Your Daily Activity
Making a Selection
- View the daily prompt or suggested activities
- Choose an activity you're interested in
- Tap to select it as your daily choice
- Your selection is saved and visible to your partner
Selection Options
You might:
- Choose from suggested activities
- Browse your rated activities
- Select from matched interests with partner
- Pass on the day's selection
How Daily Selection Works
Your Daily Choice
Each day, you can:
- Select one activity as your "choice of the day"
- Change your selection until a certain time
- See if it matches your partner's choice
Partner Matching
When both partners make selections:
- Match! - You both chose the same or compatible activities
- Different choices - You can see what each chose
- Discussion points - Differences can spark conversation
Daily Reset
- Selections reset each day
- Previous days become history
- New suggestions appear daily
Creating Quick Proposals
From Daily Selection
Turn your daily selection into a proposal:
- Make your daily selection
- Tap Propose This
- Add date/time and notes
- Send to your partner
This streamlined flow makes frequent proposals easy.
The Propose Play Screen
For more detailed proposals:
- Tap Create Proposal
- Select activities (daily selection pre-filled)
- Add custom notes
- Use the AI Message Generator (Premium) for help writing
- Set a proposed date/time
- Choose your role for the session
- Send to partner
AI Message Generator
What It Does
Premium feature that helps write proposal messages:
- Generates thoughtful, engaging text
- Based on selected activities
- Customizable tone and style
- Saves time on writing
Using the AI Generator
- Select your activities
- Tap AI Generate button
- Review the generated message
- Edit as needed
- Include in your proposal
Note: This feature may require Premium and is feature-gated.
Responding to Proposals
When You Receive a Proposal
- You'll get a notification
- Open the proposal from Play tab
- Review the suggested activities, date, and notes
Response Options
| Option | What It Does | |--------|--------------| | Accept | Agree to the proposal as-is | | Suggest Changes | Counter with modifications | | Decline | Not interested this time | | Reschedule | Interested but different time |
Counter-Proposing
If you like the idea but want changes:
- Tap Suggest Changes
- Modify activities, date, or notes
- Send your counter-proposal
- Partner reviews and responds
Role Selection
Choosing Your Role
For certain proposals, you can specify roles:
- Dominant - You'll lead the session
- Submissive - Your partner leads
- Switch - Roles may vary or switch during
- Unspecified - Leave it open
Role in Proposals
When creating a proposal:
- Go to role selection screen
- Choose your preferred role
- This helps set expectations
Play History
Viewing Past Sessions
Go to Play > History to see:
- All past proposals (accepted and completed)
- Dates and activities
- Notes that were included
- Historical record of your intimate life
Using History
History helps you:
- Remember what you've explored
- Find activities to repeat
- Avoid repetition if desired
- Track your journey together
History as Templates
Past sessions can become templates:
- Open a past session
- Tap Use as Template
- Creates a new proposal with same activities
- Adjust date and notes
- Send
Daily Play Settings
Notification Preferences
Control daily play notifications:
- Go to Profile > Notifications
- Find Daily Play category
- Toggle:
- Daily prompts
- Partner selection alerts
- Match notifications
Selection Reminders
Enable reminders to make your daily selection:
- Morning reminder
- Evening reminder
- Custom time
Common Questions
Q: Do I have to make a daily selection?
A: No, it's optional. Daily Play is designed to encourage regular communication, but there's no requirement.
Q: What time does the daily selection reset?
A: Selections reset at midnight in your local timezone.
Q: Can I see my partner's selection before making mine?
A: Typically, selections are revealed simultaneously or after both have chosen, to encourage independent choices.
Q: What if my partner and I never match?
A: Different preferences are normal! Use mismatches as conversation starters about what you each enjoy.
Q: Can I turn off Daily Play entirely?
A: You can disable daily play notifications and simply not use the feature. The tab remains but won't prompt you.
Q: How is Daily Play different from regular proposals?
A: Daily Play is lighter-weight and daily-focused. Regular proposals are for specific scheduled sessions with more detail.
Q: Does Daily Play work without a partner?
A: The selection feature works solo, but matching and proposals require a partner connection.
Tips for Daily Play
Making It a Habit
- Set a daily reminder
- Make selections at the same time each day
- Discuss matches with your partner
- Use it as a conversation starter
Getting More From It
- Be honest in your selections
- Try new activities occasionally
- Review your patterns over time
- Use it to stay connected even when busy
For Busy Couples
- Quick selections take just seconds
- Don't feel pressured to propose every day
- Use it to stay in touch about desires
- Quality over quantity
Troubleshooting
Daily Prompt Not Appearing
- Pull down to refresh the Play tab
- Check your internet connection
- Ensure you're logged in
- Wait for the new day to begin (midnight)
Selection Not Saving
- Check internet connectivity
- Make sure you tapped to confirm
- Don't navigate away too quickly
- Pull down to refresh and check
Partner's Selection Not Showing
- They may not have made a selection yet
- Check selection reveal timing
- Pull down to refresh
- Ask partner if they've selected
Can't Send Proposal
- Verify you have an active partnership
- Check if you've hit proposal limits (free tier)
- Ensure all required fields are filled
- Check internet connection