Play Proposals & Scheduling

Turn anticipation into reality with Play Proposals—your bridge from fantasy to experience. No more awkward "so, what do you want to do?" moments or missed opportunities because life got busy. Create thoughtful proposals that suggest activities you both love, set dates that work, and build excitement together. With templates for your favorites and the ability to customize every detail, proposing intimacy becomes as natural as planning dinner—and infinitely more exciting.

Understanding Play Proposals

What is a Play Proposal?

A play proposal is an invitation to your partner suggesting:

  • One or more activities to explore together
  • A proposed date and time
  • Optional notes or context
  • Any special preparations needed

Proposal Lifecycle

Draft → Sent → Pending → Accepted/Rejected → Completed

| Status | Meaning | |--------|---------| | Draft | Saved but not sent to partner | | Sent | Delivered to partner, awaiting response | | Pending | Partner has viewed but not responded | | Accepted | Partner agreed to the proposal | | Rejected | Partner declined the proposal | | Cancelled | You withdrew the proposal | | Completed | The scheduled session has passed | | Superseded | Replaced by a newer proposal |

Creating a Play Proposal

Step-by-Step Guide

  1. Navigate to Play Tab

    • Tap the Play icon in the bottom navigation

  2. Start a New Proposal

    • Tap Create Proposal or the + button

  3. Select Activities

    • Choose from your matched interests (activities you both rated Yes/Maybe)
    • Or browse your personal rankings
    • Select one or more activities

  4. Set the Date

    • Pick a proposed date using the calendar
    • Optionally set a specific time
    • Or leave open-ended ("This weekend")

  5. Add Notes (Optional)

    • Include context or special requests
    • Mention any preparations needed
    • Add romantic or playful messages

  6. Review and Send

    • Preview your proposal
    • Tap Send to deliver to your partner
    • Or tap Save Draft to finish later

Quick Proposals

For faster creation:

  1. From your Daily Selection, tap Propose This
  2. The activity is pre-selected
  3. Just add a date and send

Managing Proposals

Viewing Your Proposals

Go to Play tab to see:

  • Upcoming - Accepted proposals with future dates
  • Pending - Proposals awaiting response
  • Drafts - Saved but unsent proposals
  • Past - Completed or expired proposals

Editing a Proposal

You can edit proposals that are still in Draft status:

  1. Tap the draft proposal
  2. Make your changes
  3. Save or send

Note: Sent proposals cannot be edited. Cancel and create a new one instead.

Cancelling a Proposal

To withdraw a sent proposal:

  1. Open the proposal
  2. Tap Cancel Proposal
  3. Optionally add a message explaining why
  4. Your partner will be notified

Responding to Proposals

When You Receive a Proposal

You'll receive a notification when your partner sends a proposal. To respond:

  1. Open the notification or go to Play tab
  2. View the proposal details
  3. Choose your response:
    • Accept - Agree to the proposal as-is
    • Suggest Changes - Propose modifications
    • Decline - Not interested at this time

Accepting a Proposal

When you accept:

  • The proposal moves to "Accepted" status
  • It appears in both your Upcoming sections
  • Both partners receive a confirmation

Suggesting Changes

If you like the idea but want modifications:

  1. Tap Suggest Changes
  2. Modify activities, date, or notes
  3. Send your counter-proposal
  4. Your partner reviews the updated version

Declining a Proposal

When declining:

  • Optionally provide a reason
  • Your partner is notified
  • The proposal is archived

Note: Declining doesn't mean you're not interested in your partner—it just means this particular proposal doesn't work for you.

Proposal Templates

What are Templates?

Templates let you save proposal configurations for reuse:

  • Favorite activity combinations
  • Regular date night formats
  • Special occasion setups

Creating a Template

  1. When creating a proposal, tap Save as Template
  2. Give your template a name
  3. The activities and notes are saved (not the date)

Or from an existing proposal:

  1. Open a completed proposal
  2. Tap Save as Template

Using Templates

  1. Start a new proposal
  2. Tap Use Template
  3. Select your template
  4. Adjust the date and any details
  5. Send

Managing Templates

Go to Play > Templates to:

  • View all saved templates
  • Edit template names and content
  • Delete templates you no longer need

Proposal Limits

Free Account Limits

Free users can create:

  • Up to 3 proposals per month
  • Maximum 2 pending proposals at a time

Premium Benefits

Premium subscribers enjoy:

  • Unlimited proposals
  • Unlimited pending proposals
  • Access to premium activities in proposals

Tracking Your Usage

View your remaining proposals:

  1. Go to Play tab
  2. Check the counter near Create Proposal
  3. Limits reset on the 1st of each month

Past Sessions

Viewing History

Go to Play > Past to see:

  • All completed proposals
  • When they were scheduled
  • Which activities were included
  • Any notes that were added

Why Track History?

  • Remember what you've explored
  • Identify favorite activities
  • Plan future sessions based on past successes
  • Celebrate your journey together

Common Questions

Q: Can I send a proposal without selecting a specific date?

A: Yes! You can leave the date open-ended or suggest a general timeframe like "this weekend" or "next week."

Q: What happens if neither of us responds to a proposal?

A: Proposals don't expire automatically, but very old pending proposals may be archived. Either partner can cancel an old proposal.

Q: Can I see proposals my partner rejected?

A: Yes, declined proposals appear in your Past section with "Declined" status.

Q: What if we both try to create proposals at the same time?

A: Both proposals will exist independently. You can accept both, accept one and decline the other, or discuss and consolidate.

Q: Can I propose activities my partner hasn't rated yet?

A: Yes, but activities your partner hasn't rated or rated "No" will show a notice. It's best to propose activities from your matched interests.

Q: How do I remove a completed proposal from my history?

A: Past proposals are kept for your records and cannot be deleted individually. They don't affect your proposal limits.

Q: Will my partner see my draft proposals?

A: No. Drafts are completely private until you send them.

Q: Can I set recurring proposals (e.g., every Saturday)?

A: Currently, each proposal is one-time. You can use templates to quickly create similar proposals. Recurring proposals may be added in future updates.

Troubleshooting

Proposal Not Sending

  1. Check your internet connection
  2. Ensure you have proposals remaining (free users)
  3. Verify you have an active partner connection
  4. Try saving as draft and sending later

Partner Didn't Receive Notification

  1. Ask them to open the app and check the Play tab directly
  2. Verify their notification settings are enabled
  3. Check if their app needs updating

Can't Select Certain Activities

Some activities may be unavailable because:

  • They're premium-only (upgrade to access)
  • They require partner sharing to be enabled
  • There's a temporary loading issue (refresh and try again)

Proposal Stuck in "Pending"

Your partner may not have:

  • Seen the notification
  • Had time to respond
  • Made a decision yet

Consider reaching out directly to discuss. You can also cancel and create a new proposal if needed.