Basic D/s Contract Contract

This Dominance and submission Agreement is entered into freely and voluntarily by both parties. It establishes the framework of a consensual power-exchange relationship built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. Both parties acknowledge that this agreement carries no legal weight and exists solely as a symbol of shared commitment. Either party may withdraw consent at any time, for any reason, without penalty. The foundation of this dynamic is the willing surrender of authority by the submissive to the Dominant, and the Dominant's solemn acceptance of the responsibility that accompanies that gift.

Sir's responsibilities

• •Provide consistent leadership, structure, and direction within the agreed boundaries of this dynamic.
• •Prioritise the physical, emotional, and psychological safety of the submissive at all times.
• •Communicate expectations clearly and give the submissive a fair opportunity to meet them.
• •Acknowledge and reward good behaviour, effort, and growth.
• •Administer discipline fairly, never in anger, and always within negotiated limits.
• •Remain open to feedback, renegotiation, and honest conversation about the state of the dynamic.
• •Continue personal education on risk-aware consensual practices.

submissive's responsibilities

• •Obey the Dominant's instructions promptly and respectfully within the agreed scope of authority.
• •Communicate honestly about physical and emotional states, limits, and concerns.
• •Use the agreed safeword system without hesitation whenever necessary.
• •Maintain personal health, hygiene, and well-being as a reflection of devotion to the dynamic.
• •Approach service and submission with sincerity, effort, and a willingness to learn.
• •Refrain from topping from the bottom while still advocating for personal safety.
• •Keep a journal or log as requested to support reflection and growth.

1. 1.Address the Dominant as "Sir" at all times during dynamic interactions, whether in person or via message.
2. 2.Send a good-morning text by 9 a.m. each day that includes a greeting, current mood, and one thing the submissive is grateful for.
3. 3.Send a goodnight message each evening confirming all daily tasks are complete.
4. 4.Ask permission before orgasm. Orgasms taken without explicit verbal permission are considered violations.
5. 5.Maintain respectful language and tone at all times. Disagreements are raised calmly and privately, never with sarcasm, shouting, or public undermining.
6. 6.Complete all assigned tasks by the stated deadline. If a task cannot be completed, notify the Dominant as early as possible with an honest explanation.
7. 7.Wear the agreed day collar whenever outside the home as a symbol of commitment.
8. 8.Keep a daily submissive journal: minimum three sentences reflecting on the dynamic, personal growth, or feelings.
9. 9.Present for weekly in-person or video check-in every Sunday at the agreed time, prepared to discuss highs, lows, and any needed adjustments.
10. 10.Maintain agreed standards of personal grooming, fitness, and self-care as outlined in the separate grooming addendum.

• •Writing lines: copying a correction phrase 50 to 200 times, quantity determined by severity.
• •Loss of privileges: temporary removal of a favourite activity (screen time, dessert, free-choice evening) for 24 to 72 hours.
• •Corner time: standing in a designated spot with hands behind the back for 15 to 30 minutes, reflecting on the infraction.
• •Impact play: over-the-knee hand spanking, 10 to 30 measured strokes, severity proportionate to the offence.
• •Written essay: a 500-word essay on why the rule exists and how the submissive plans to improve.
• •Early bedtime: lights out one hour earlier than usual for one to three nights.

• •Verbal praise and affirmation, delivered sincerely and specifically referencing what the submissive did well.
• •A dedicated date night of the submissive's choosing: restaurant, activity, or outing.
• •Special privileges such as sleeping in the Dominant's bed, choosing the evening's entertainment, or a later bedtime.
• •A small gift or token of appreciation related to the submissive's interests.
• •Extended cuddle or intimacy time with the Dominant's focused, undivided attention.
• •A "free pass" day where daily protocols are relaxed and the submissive sets the agenda.
• •Public (within-community) acknowledgement of growth or achievement.

Either party may terminate this agreement at any time, for any reason, by clearly stating their intention to do so verbally or in writing. Upon termination: all protocols and rules cease immediately; all collars and symbolic items are returned or disposition is mutually agreed; all private media is deleted within 48 hours with confirmation provided; a final check-in conversation occurs within one week to ensure emotional closure; the confidentiality and anti-outing clauses remain in effect permanently. There is no penalty for termination. Ending this agreement is an exercise of autonomy, not a betrayal.