Free for clinicians
and their patients.

Kink comes up in the therapy room far more often than most training prepares clinicians for. A couple discloses a mismatch they don't have words for. A client is carrying shame about a preference that research has never linked to pathology. And when you look for something practical to hand them, most of what exists is either academic, outdated, or an internet forum you would never send a client to.

BeMoreKinky gives couples structure. Quizzes that let each partner answer privately, so nobody has to say a fantasy out loud before knowing it's shared. Guided exercises with warm-ups and debriefs built in. A shared vocabulary for conversations that usually stall on embarrassment. For couples in therapy, that structure does quiet, useful work between your sessions.

We already work with therapists. Some of the collaborators who review our content and features before they ship are practicing clinicians who can't put their names on this subject without professional consequences. Their fingerprints are on everything we make, and this page is partly their idea.

We would rather cost never be the reason a couple doesn't get a tool their therapist thinks would help. So for clinical use, the app is free. That's the whole pitch.

Everything in Premium, for you and for the people you work with. No trial clock, no feature gates, no card on file.

BeMoreKinky is an education and communication tool. It is not therapy, and it does not replace clinical care.

Your clients' privacy is not a feature we added, it's the architecture. Everything is encrypted with AES-256. In-app chat is end-to-end encrypted using the Double Ratchet protocol, the same approach Signal uses. We don't run ad tracking, and we can't read what a couple shares with each other even if we wanted to.

Nothing your clients do in the app comes back to you, and nothing comes back to us in a readable form. You can read exactly what we collect, what we can't see, and how the security model works on our privacy and safety page.

The app's content is built on anonymized data from more than 11,000 couples using BeMoreKinky, the largest dataset of its kind, plus monthly surveys that reach over 50,000 kinksters. We publish what we find. To be clear about what this is: first-party data from self-selected app users, not peer-reviewed clinical research. Our methodology and limitations are documented in full, because we expect you to read them.

A few pieces clinicians tend to find most useful:

The full series lives in our research hub.

Licensed therapists, psychologists, counselors, social workers, certified sex therapists, physicians, nurses, and other credentialed clinicians. Any jurisdiction. If your work involves helping people with intimacy, relationships, or sexual health and you hold a license or certification for it, you almost certainly qualify.