Guide series
Sex & Pleasure
Practical, shame free guides to sex and pleasure, from anal play and oral sex to orgasms, positions, foreplay, and queer intimacy.
Good sex is mostly about attention, communication, and a willingness to learn what actually feels good. This section covers the practical side of pleasure: technique, anatomy, and the conversations that make all of it work.
What's Covered in This Section
Anal Play
Prostate play, butt plugs, pegging, and how to make anal comfortable and genuinely good.
Oral Sex
Going down with confidence: cunnilingus, fellatio, fingering, and hand technique.
Orgasms & Anatomy
How bodies actually work, covering orgasms, squirting, erogenous zones, and masturbation.
Sex Positions
Positions that work in real life, with tips on angle, comfort, and connection.
Foreplay & Intimacy
Building anticipation: teasing, sensual massage, initiating sex, and slowing things down.
Queer Sex & Identity
Sapphic sex, identity, and pleasure beyond the straight script.
Articles in this section
Beginners Guide to Anal Play
A grounded guide to anal play, covering what it is, how to prepare, and the practical details most people are too embarrassed to ask about.
How to Prepare for Pegging: A First-Time Timeline
A step by step timeline for preparing to peg or be pegged, covering kit, hygiene, and comfort so a first time goes smoothly.
Prostate Milking: What It Is and What to Know First
What prostate milking means, what it feels like, and the prep, technique, and safety basics to know before you try it.
Anal Orgasms Without the Weirdness
What anal orgasms actually feel like, why they happen, and how to relax into a kind of pleasure most people never let themselves reach.
What Is Felching? Meaning, Risks, and Safer-Sex Context
A clear, non-judgemental look at what felching is, the health risks involved, and how to approach it more safely.
What Does a Butt Plug Do? Why People Use Them
The real reasons people use butt plugs, from pleasure and fullness to kink and prep, plus the safety basics worth knowing.
How to Use a Prostate Toy: A Beginner's Step-by-Step Guide
A step by step guide to using a prostate toy, from prep and insertion to technique, so beginners can explore comfortably and safely.
Prostate Orgasms: The Bit Everyone Gets Weird About
What a prostate orgasm feels like, why it is so intense, and how to reach one without the cultural baggage getting in the way.
Pegging Positions, Pleasure & Equipment: A Couple's Guide
A closer look at pegging positions that actually work, what it feels like for both partners, and how to choose a harness and dildo you'll love.
12 Yoni Massage Techniques and a 5-Step Solo Guide
What a yoni massage actually is, how it works, and how to give or receive one with slow, attentive touch that puts pleasure before any goal.
How to Give a Lap Dance Without Feeling Awkward
Learn how to give a confident lap dance, with simple moves, practical tips and the relaxed mindset that matters more than perfect choreography.
Sensual Touch: Slow Down and Actually Feel Each Other
What sensual touch really means, and how slowing down your hands helps you and your partner feel each other instead of rushing ahead.
Sensate Focus Exercises: A Beginners Guide
A Board-Certified Clinical Sexologist explains Sensate Focus exercises, sexual mindfulness, arousal, and a common five-stage progression.
Strip Tease Meaning, History, and How to Perform One Safely
What strip tease means, where it comes from, and how to perform one for your partner with confidence, control and a little bit of theatre.
Pleasure Mapping: How to Stop Guessing What Feels Good
Pleasure mapping helps you and your partner chart what actually feels good, so you can stop guessing and touch with real confidence.
How to Give a Tantric Massage
A practical guide to giving a tantric massage, with slow technique, breath, presence and the steps that make touch feel genuinely intimate.
How to Tease Him Without Making It Weird
How to tease him and build anticipation with words, touch and timing, so the wanting feels playful and electric instead of awkward.
Men and Foreplay: The Stuff Guys Actually Want Before Sex
What men actually want from foreplay, why it matters as much for them, and how to build the kind of warm-up that makes sex better.
How to Start Sex Without Making It Weird
How to initiate sex with your partner naturally, with words, touch and timing that make the move feel easy instead of awkward.
How to 69 Without Turning It Into a Neck-Cramp Situation
How to actually enjoy the 69 position, from getting the alignment right to saving your neck, so you can both give and receive oral at once without the awkwardness.
How to eat pussy without acting like a robot
How to eat pussy the way real bodies actually respond: less rote technique, more paying attention, reading her cues, and adjusting to the person in front of you.
How to Finger a Girl: A Practical Guide to Technique and Consent
A practical guide to fingering someone with a vulva: the anatomy worth knowing, how to ask and read consent, and techniques that actually feel good rather than rushed.
How to give a mind blowing blowjob
How to give better head without following a porn script: warming up, reading the person in front of you, and adjusting in the moment so it feels good for both of you.
Standing 69 Sex Position: How to Do It Safely
How does standing 69 work? Learn how to try this advanced oral sex position step by step, reduce the risks, and find easier alternatives with the same thrill.
How to Give a Good Hand Job: Grip, Lube, Rhythm, and Feedback
How to give a hand job that actually lands: getting your grip and lube right, finding a rhythm, and reading live feedback so you can adjust without breaking the moment.
How to Deep Throat: Techniques, Positions & Gag Reflex Tips
Learn how to deep throat with practical techniques, position comparisons, gag reflex help, troubleshooting, and kinky ways to turn up the heat.
Pillow Humping Without the Friction Burn
How to hump a pillow for proper pleasure, no shame and no friction burn: setup, pressure, padding, and why it feels so different from hands or toys.
How to Last Longer in Bed: Techniques That Work
How to last longer in bed using techniques that actually work: spotting the point of no return, easing the pressure, and practising real control.
How to Make Yourself Squirt: A Solo Guide
A solo guide to making yourself squirt: how to set up, the front-wall pressure that matters most, and what to do when that need-to-pee feeling hits.
Nipple Orgasm: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How to Try It
Nipple orgasms are real: what they are, the brain wiring behind them, and how to try reaching one through nipple and breast touch alone.
How to Have Multiple Orgasms
How to have multiple orgasms without turning sex into homework: the arousal, timing, and body cues that let one climax roll into another.
Full-Body Orgasm
What a full-body orgasm actually feels like, why it happens, and how arousal, breath, and patience can spread pleasure beyond the usual local buzz.
Why Orgasms Feel So Good: The Science of Climax
Why orgasms feel so good, explained simply: the pleasure chemicals your brain dumps and the pelvic muscle release that combine to make climax hit hard.
Masturbation: A Practical Guide
A plain, practical guide to masturbation for anyone who still feels weird Googling it: why it matters, how to explore, and dropping the guilt.
Cupioromantic Meaning: Wanting Romance Without Romantic Attraction
Cupioromantic means wanting a romantic relationship without feeling romantic attraction. Here is what the label means, where it came from, and why it is valid.
Sapphic Eroticism and the Pleasure of Being the Point
Sapphic eroticism centres female and femme desire. Here is what counts, why it matters, and how to find erotica that puts women at the centre.
What Does Sapphic Mean Sexually? A Sapphic Sex Guide
What does sapphic mean sexually? Here is the roomy queer sense of the word, the acts it can involve, plus boundaries and safer sex basics.
New things to try in bed when sex has got too predictable
Practical new things to try in bed when sex feels stale, from small tweaks like switching who initiates to bigger talks about fantasies you have been sitting on.
How to master the Doggy Style sex position
A real guide to doggy style: getting the angle right, matching heights, saving your knees, and keeping the connection so it feels good for both of you.
Full Nelson Sex Position: How to Do It Safely
How the full nelson sex position works, why it puts the neck and flexibility at risk, and safer variations that keep the restraint and control without the danger.
Chair Sex Positions: Creative Ideas for Hot Encounters
Discover creative chair sex positions and techniques to add novelty, comfort, and intense pleasure to your intimate encounters.
Apex Sex Position: How to do it
The trending 'Apex' sex position isn’t one setup, it’s a family of pelvic-elevating angles designed for deeper stimulation and more comfortable alignment. Learn how to adapt Apex for your body, reduce pain, and explore safer, more satisfying alternatives.
Ultimate Guide to the Close-Breathing Sex Position
Discover how the close-breathing sex position deepens intimacy through synchronized breathing, eye contact, and mindful movement. Explore science-backed benefits, tantric roots, step-by-step techniques, and safety tips for building erotic connection.