Guide series
Sex & Pleasure
Practical, shame free guides to sex and pleasure, from anal play and oral sex to orgasms, positions, foreplay, and queer intimacy.
Good sex is mostly about attention, communication, and a willingness to learn what actually feels good. This section covers the practical side of pleasure: technique, anatomy, and the conversations that make all of it work.
What's Covered in This Section
Anal Play
Prostate play, butt plugs, pegging, and how to make anal comfortable and genuinely good.
Oral Sex
Going down with confidence: cunnilingus, fellatio, fingering, and hand technique.
Orgasms & Anatomy
How bodies actually work, covering orgasms, squirting, erogenous zones, and masturbation.
Sex Positions
Positions that work in real life, with tips on angle, comfort, and connection.
Foreplay & Intimacy
Building anticipation: teasing, sensual massage, initiating sex, and slowing things down.
Queer Sex & Identity
Sapphic sex, identity, and pleasure beyond the straight script.
Articles in this section
Anal Play Without Shame: Pleasure, Prep, and the Bits People Skip
A grounded guide to anal play, covering what it is, how to prepare, and the practical details most people are too embarrassed to ask about.
How to Prepare for Pegging: A First-Time Timeline for Receivers and Peggers
A step by step timeline for preparing to peg or be pegged, covering kit, hygiene, and comfort so a first time goes smoothly.
Prostate Milking: What It Is and What to Know First
What prostate milking means, what it feels like, and the prep, technique, and safety basics to know before you try it.
Anal Orgasms Without the Weirdness
What anal orgasms actually feel like, why they happen, and how to relax into a kind of pleasure most people never let themselves reach.
What Is Felching? Meaning, Risks, and Safer-Sex Context
A clear, non-judgemental look at what felching is, the health risks involved, and how to approach it more safely.
What Does a Butt Plug Do? Why People Use Them
The real reasons people use butt plugs, from pleasure and fullness to kink and prep, plus the safety basics worth knowing.
How to Use a Prostate Toy: A Beginner's Step-by-Step Guide
A step by step guide to using a prostate toy, from prep and insertion to technique, so beginners can explore comfortably and safely.
Prostate Orgasms: The Bit Everyone Gets Weird About
What a prostate orgasm feels like, why it is so intense, and how to reach one without the cultural baggage getting in the way.
Pegging Positions, Pleasure & Equipment: A Couple's Guide
A closer look at pegging positions that actually work, what it feels like for both partners, and how to choose a harness and dildo you'll love.
Strip Tease Meaning, History, and How to Perform One Safely
What strip tease means, where it comes from, and how to perform one for your partner with confidence, control and a little bit of theatre.
Pleasure Mapping: How to Stop Guessing What Feels Good
Pleasure mapping helps you and your partner chart what actually feels good, so you can stop guessing and touch with real confidence.
How to Give a Tantric Massage
A practical guide to giving a tantric massage, with slow technique, breath, presence and the steps that make touch feel genuinely intimate.
How to Tease Him Without Making It Weird
How to tease him and build anticipation with words, touch and timing, so the wanting feels playful and electric instead of awkward.
Men and Foreplay: The Stuff Guys Actually Want Before Sex
What men actually want from foreplay, why it matters as much for them, and how to build the kind of warm-up that makes sex better.
How to Start Sex Without Making It Weird
How to initiate sex with your partner naturally, with words, touch and timing that make the move feel easy instead of awkward.
Standing 69 Sex Position: How to Do It Safely
How does standing 69 work? Learn how to try this advanced oral sex position step by step, reduce the risks, and find easier alternatives with the same thrill.
How to Give a Good Hand Job: Grip, Lube, Rhythm, and Feedback
How to give a hand job that actually lands: getting your grip and lube right, finding a rhythm, and reading live feedback so you can adjust without breaking the moment.
How to Deep Throat: Techniques, Positions & Gag Reflex Tips
Learn how to deep throat with practical techniques, position comparisons, gag reflex help, troubleshooting, and kinky ways to turn up the heat.
Nipple Orgasm: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How to Try It
Nipple orgasms are real: what they are, the brain wiring behind them, and how to try reaching one through nipple and breast touch alone.
How to Have Multiple Orgasms
How to have multiple orgasms without turning sex into homework: the arousal, timing, and body cues that let one climax roll into another.
Full-Body Orgasm
What a full-body orgasm actually feels like, why it happens, and how arousal, breath, and patience can spread pleasure beyond the usual local buzz.
Why Orgasms Feel So Good: The Science of Climax
Why orgasms feel so good, explained simply: the pleasure chemicals your brain dumps and the pelvic muscle release that combine to make climax hit hard.
Masturbation: a Practical Guide for People Who Still Feel Weird Googling It
A plain, practical guide to masturbation for anyone who still feels weird Googling it: why it matters, how to explore, and dropping the guilt.
Sapphic Eroticism and the Pleasure of Being the Point
Sapphic eroticism centres female and femme desire. Here is what counts, why it matters, and how to find erotica that puts women at the centre.
What Does Sapphic Mean Sexually? Sapphic Sex, Acts, Boundaries, and Safer Sex
What does sapphic mean sexually? Here is the roomy queer sense of the word, the acts it can involve, plus boundaries and safer sex basics.
Full Nelson Sex Position: How It Works, Risks, and Safer Variations
How the full nelson sex position works, why it puts the neck and flexibility at risk, and safer variations that keep the restraint and control without the danger.
Chair Sex Positions: Creative Ideas for Hot Encounters
Discover creative chair sex positions and techniques to add novelty, comfort, and intense pleasure to your intimate encounters.
Apex Sex Position: How to do it
The trending 'Apex' sex position isn’t one setup, it’s a family of pelvic-elevating angles designed for deeper stimulation and more comfortable alignment. Learn how to adapt Apex for your body, reduce pain, and explore safer, more satisfying alternatives.
Ultimate Guide to the Close-Breathing Sex Position
Discover how the close-breathing sex position deepens intimacy through synchronized breathing, eye contact, and mindful movement. Explore science-backed benefits, tantric roots, step-by-step techniques, and safety tips for building erotic connection.