Men and Foreplay: The Stuff Guys Actually Want Before Sex
What men actually want from foreplay, why it matters as much for them, and how to build the kind of warm-up that makes sex better.
Sex & Pleasure
Practical, shame free guides to sex and pleasure, from anal play and oral sex to orgasms, positions, foreplay, and queer intimacy.
Good sex is mostly about attention, communication, and a willingness to learn what actually feels good. This section covers the practical side of pleasure: technique, anatomy, and the conversations that make all of it work.
What's Covered in This Section
Anal Play
Prostate play, butt plugs, pegging, and how to make anal comfortable and genuinely good.
Oral Sex
Going down with confidence: cunnilingus, fellatio, fingering, and hand technique.
Orgasms & Anatomy
How bodies actually work, covering orgasms, squirting, erogenous zones, and masturbation.
Sex Positions
Positions that work in real life, with tips on angle, comfort, and connection.
Foreplay & Intimacy
Building anticipation: teasing, sensual massage, initiating sex, and slowing things down.
Queer Sex & Identity
Sapphic sex, identity, and pleasure beyond the straight script.
Articles in this section
How to Use a Prostate Toy: A Beginner's Step-by-Step Guide
A step by step guide to using a prostate toy, from prep and insertion to technique, so beginners can explore comfortably and safely.
Prostate Orgasms: The Bit Everyone Gets Weird About
What a prostate orgasm feels like, why it is so intense, and how to reach one without the cultural baggage getting in the way.
How to Start Sex Without Making It Weird
How to initiate sex with your partner naturally, with words, touch and timing that make the move feel easy instead of awkward.
Masturbation: a Practical Guide for People Who Still Feel Weird Googling It
A plain, practical guide to masturbation for anyone who still feels weird Googling it: why it matters, how to explore, and dropping the guilt.
What Does Sapphic Mean Sexually? Sapphic Sex, Acts, Boundaries, and Safer Sex
What does sapphic mean sexually? Here is the roomy queer sense of the word, the acts it can involve, plus boundaries and safer sex basics.
Pegging Positions, Pleasure & Equipment: A Couple's Guide
A closer look at pegging positions that actually work, what it feels like for both partners, and how to choose a harness and dildo you'll love.
Chair Sex Positions: Creative Ideas for Hot Encounters
Discover creative chair sex positions and techniques to add novelty, comfort, and intense pleasure to your intimate encounters.
How to Deepthroat: A Complete Guide for Beginners
Master deepthroating with our comprehensive guide covering techniques, gag reflex suppression, positioning, and safety tips for a confident experience.
Apex Sex Position: How to do it
The trending 'Apex' sex position isn’t one setup, it’s a family of pelvic-elevating angles designed for deeper stimulation and more comfortable alignment. Learn how to adapt Apex for your body, reduce pain, and explore safer, more satisfying alternatives.
Ultimate Guide to the Close-Breathing Sex Position
Discover how the close-breathing sex position deepens intimacy through synchronized breathing, eye contact, and mindful movement. Explore science-backed benefits, tantric roots, step-by-step techniques, and safety tips for building erotic connection.