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Power, bondage, and BDSM

Definitions for this family

  • BDSM

    This is the big umbrella for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism.

    No app numbersRead the guide: BDSM

  • Dominance and submission

    Usually shortened to D/s, this is when one adult takes agreed authority and another chooses to yield some control.

    No app numbers

  • Switching

    A switch enjoys more than one side of a power or BDSM role.

    54% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Read the guide: Switching

  • Bondage and restraint

    Bondage is about the charge that comes from being held, restricted, or artfully tied.

    78% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5Giving 79% yes, receiving 77% yes

  • Rope bondage

    Rope play, shibari, and kinbaku are names you will hear when the rope itself is the turn-on, from its feel against skin to the slow ritual of being tied.

    70% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 69% yes, receiving 69% yes

  • Discipline

    Discipline brings agreed rules and consequences into a power dynamic.

    50% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 52% yes, receiving 48% yesRead the guide: Discipline

  • Sadism, or erotic sadism

    An erotic sadist likes giving a willing partner pain or fear.

    No app numbers

  • Masochism, or erotic masochism

    An erotic masochist likes receiving consensual pain or a chosen dose of discomfort.

    No app numbers

  • Impact play

    Impact play is consensual hitting: spanking, paddling, flogging, caning, and friends.

    53% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 53% yes, receiving 51% yes

  • Spanking

    Hand meets backside; sometimes an implement joins in.

    66% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 67% yes, receiving 63% yes

  • Flogging, paddling, caning, and cropping

    These impact-play cousins differ mostly by tool and sensation.

    41% said yesInterest 4.2 of 5Giving 42% yes, receiving 40% yes

  • Service submission

    A service sub expresses submission by doing: making coffee, polishing boots, completing tasks, caring for a partner, or anticipating what a Dominant needs.

    57% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 58% yes, receiving 56% yes

  • Protocol

    Protocol means agreed rules for titles, posture, speech, dress, permission, rituals, or everyday conduct.

    53% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 51% yes, receiving 54% yes

  • Total power exchange

    TPE, sometimes called 24/7 D/s, extends negotiated authority into many areas of life instead of switching it on only during a scene.

    No app numbers

  • Master/slave and owner/property dynamics

    Usually shortened to M/s or O/p, these dynamics eroticize ownership, hierarchy, and deep surrender between consenting adults.

    60% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5Giving 60% yes, receiving 58% yes

  • Brat and brat-tamer play

    A brat teases, provokes, or playfully resists; the brat-tamer enjoys the invitation to respond.

    73% said yesRead the guide: Brat and brat-tamer play

  • Chastity and keyholding

    Chastity restricts sexual access or orgasm through a device or rule.

    44% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 42% yes, receiving 46% yes

  • Orgasm control

    One partner influences when, whether, or how another may climax.

    70% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5Giving 71% yes, receiving 69% yes

  • Edging, tease and denial

    Get close to orgasm, back off, then do it again.

    61% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 61% yes, receiving 61% yesRead the guide: Edging, tease and denial

  • Consensual forced orgasm and overstimulation

    Here, stimulation continues inside an agreed “you cannot stop me” fantasy.

    74% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5

  • Predicament bondage

    A predicament makes every option cost something: hold a tiring pose or tug a clamp, stay still or feel a rope tighten elsewhere.

    No app numbers

  • Mummification and encasement

    A person is wrapped until movement is heavily restricted.

    24% said yes

Sensation, pain, fear, and edge play

Definitions for this family

  • Sensory deprivation

    Sight, sound, speech, or movement is reduced so every remaining touch feels louder.

    69% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 69% yes, receiving 70% yesRead the guide: Sensory deprivation

  • Gag and speech-restriction play

    Gags or no-talking rules make silence, muffled sounds, or lost verbal control erotic.

    53% said yes

  • Tickling fetishism

    Also called knismolagnia, knismophilia, or titillagnia, this is when tickling itself becomes erotic.

    45% said yesInterest 4.1 of 5Giving 51% yes, receiving 38% yes

  • Temperature play

    Heat and cold become tools for contrast, anticipation, vulnerability, and intensity.

    67% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 68% yes, receiving 65% yes

  • Wax play

    Warm wax creates sensation, suspense, ritual, and very photogenic drips.

    58% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 57% yes, receiving 58% yes

  • Electrostimulation

    E-stim uses body-safe electrical current to create a tingle or muscle contraction.

    36% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 30% yes, receiving 39% yes

  • Clamps and pinching

    Concentrated pressure creates a sharp, focused sensation and a delicious little wait before removal.

    41% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 43% yes, receiving 39% yesRead the guide: Clamps and pinching

  • Biting and scratching

    Teeth, nails, and rough touch turn marking, animal energy, affectionate aggression, or “I want to devour you” into sensation.

    66% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5Giving 67% yes, receiving 66% yes

  • Hair pulling

    Hair pulling blends scalp sensation with control, roughness, or primal energy.

    84% said yesInterest 4.8 of 5Giving 86% yes, receiving 82% yesRead the guide: Hair pulling

  • Fear play

    The body feels scared while the thinking brain knows the scene was negotiated.

    No app numbers

  • Knife and blade play

    The cold edge, weapon symbolism, vulnerability, or fear is the erotic target.

    No app numbers

  • Needle play

    Sharps, piercing, pain, ritual, and medical aesthetics come together here.

    No app numbers

  • Blood play

    The sight or symbolism of blood is part of what turns people on.

    No app numbers

  • Breath play and sexual strangulation

    Helplessness, neck pressure, fear, or control can be the appeal.

    85% said yes

  • Genital pain and genital torture

    This focuses painful or intense sensation on the genitals.

    21% said yesInterest 4.2 of 5Giving 19% yes, receiving 22% yes

  • Fire play

    Fire play puts real flame close to the body, which is exactly as serious as it sounds.

    No app numbers

Roleplay and pet play

Definitions for this family

  • Erotic roleplay

    Adults borrow characters, jobs, relationships, or entire plots and make imagination part of sex.

    49% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 50% yes, receiving 48% yesRead the guide: Erotic roleplay

  • Authority and uniform play

    Boss/employee, officer/civilian, military rank, and other fictional hierarchies use status and clothing as erotic shorthand.

    53% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 54% yes, receiving 53% yes

  • Medical roleplay

    Doctor/patient, nurse/patient, examinations, clinical restraint, gloves, and hospital aesthetics become adult theatre.

    48% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 51% yes, receiving 42% yesRead the guide: Medical roleplay

  • Stranger fantasy

    Established partners pretend they have never met: a bar, a hotel lobby, a bold invitation from someone with no shared laundry schedule.

    57% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 59% yes, receiving 56% yes

  • Capture and kidnapping fantasy

    Consenting adults stage pursuit, capture, restraint, or abduction.

    38% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 39% yes, receiving 38% yesRead the guide: Capture and kidnapping fantasy

  • Consensual non-consent

    CNC is a pre-negotiated scene where resistance or apparent coercion belongs to the fiction.

    52% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5Giving 51% yes, receiving 53% yes

  • Somnophilia and sleep play

    Sleep, apparent unconsciousness, passivity, or being awakened sexually becomes erotic.

    48% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 48% yes, receiving 48% yes

  • Free use fantasy

    An adult consensually roleplays broad sexual availability inside defined limits.

    81% said yes

  • Primal play

    Growling, wrestling, pursuit, biting, and instinct replace polished bedroom manners.

    66% said yes

  • Hunter and prey play

    Chase, pursuit, capture, surrender, and the moment of being caught are the whole story.

    69% said yes

  • Pet play

    One adult takes an animal-like role while another may become owner, trainer, or handler.

    21% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 21% yes, receiving 21% yes

  • Puppy, kitten, and pony play

    These are pet-play styles, not a strict menu.

    20% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 21% yes, receiving 20% yesRead the guide: Puppy, kitten, and pony play

  • Religious and sacrilege roleplay

    Religious roleplay borrows things with plenty of emotional charge already: confession, clergy, purity, punishment, sin, or blasphemy.

    No app numbers

Humiliation, praise, status, and social power

Definitions for this family

  • Humiliation

    Humiliation turns consensual embarrassment or lowered status into a turn-on.

    20% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 20% yes, receiving 19% yesRead the guide: Humiliation

  • Degradation

    Degradation is humiliation turned meaner, at least inside the scene.

    31% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 31% yes, receiving 29% yesRead the guide: Degradation

  • Praise kink

    Approval becomes a direct line to arousal: good girl, perfect boy, you make me so proud.

    75% said yesInterest 4.7 of 5Giving 77% yes, receiving 73% yes

  • Objectification

    Consensual erotic objectification can turn a person into a possession, decoration, tool, furniture, or desirable body inside the scene.

    29% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 27% yes, receiving 30% yes

  • Erotic name-calling

    Slut, toy, pet, sir, goddess, and countless more specific words carry erotic charge because of taboo, possession, status, or identity.

    47% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 46% yes, receiving 46% yes

  • Body writing and marking

    Words, stamps, lipstick, symbols, or temporary marks turn the body into a message.

    43% said yesInterest 4.2 of 5Giving 42% yes, receiving 44% yes

  • Small-penis humiliation

    SPH is consensual teasing or humiliation focused on penis size.

    15% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 12% yes, receiving 16% yesRead the guide: Small-penis humiliation

  • Cuckolding and cuckqueaning

    One partner eroticizes their partner’s sexual interaction with somebody else.

    29% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 27% yes, receiving 30% yesRead the guide: Cuckolding and cuckqueaning

  • Candaulism and erotic partner display

    Candaulism means getting turned on when other people admire your consenting partner.

    No app numbers

  • Hotwife and stag-vixen play

    One partner has outside encounters, and the primary couple enjoys the autonomy, anticipation, or retelling.

    28% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 28% yes, receiving 29% yesRead the guide: Hotwife and stag-vixen play

  • Erotic jealousy

    Rivalry, comparison, possessiveness, and uncertainty are cultivated because the emotional spike itself feels hot.

    No app numbersRead the guide: Erotic jealousy

  • Financial domination

    Findom turns money, gifts, or spending control into D/s.

    21% said yesInterest 4.2 of 5Giving 20% yes, receiving 20% yes

  • Feminization and sissification fantasy

    A person is encouraged or “made” to adopt feminine clothes, mannerisms, names, or roles.

    23% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 21% yes, receiving 26% yesRead the guide: Feminization and sissification fantasy

  • Masculinization

    Erotic masculinization can involve masculine clothes, roles, body imagery, voice, or mannerisms.

    No app numbers

Bodies and body parts

Definitions for this family

  • Partialism

    Partialism is strong erotic focus on a particular body part.

    No app numbers

  • Foot fetish

    Feet, toes, soles, arches, scent, shoes, massage, worship, or being underfoot become especially erotic.

    56% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 53% yes, receiving 57% yes

  • Hand fetish

    Hand fetishists notice veins, grip, nails, jewelry, and the way a hand moves.

    No app numbers

  • Hair fetish

    Head hair becomes erotic through length, texture, smell, style, movement, brushing, or cutting imagery.

    No app numbers

  • Armpit fetish

    Armpits combine scent, hair, skin, vulnerability, closeness, and a body part polite culture usually asks everyone to deodorize into submission.

    22% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 16% yes, receiving 26% yes

  • Breast and chest focus

    Breasts, nipples, pecs, chest shape, softness, muscle, or chest-focused touch take center stage.

    83% said yesInterest 4.7 of 5Giving 75% yes, receiving 87% yes

  • Buttocks focus

    Shape, movement, clothing, touch, display, spanking potential, or the simple visual fact of a lovely backside becomes central.

    49% said yesGiving 44% yes, receiving 58% yes

  • Leg and thigh focus

    Legs, including thighs, calves, knees, their shape, movement, or the clothing framing them, become the favorite visual or tactile cue.

    78% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5Giving 71% yes, receiving 81% yes

  • Body-hair fetish

    Chest hair, pubic hair, facial hair, leg hair, or hairiness itself becomes erotic.

    No app numbers

  • Muscle fetish and muscle worship

    Muscles and strength, flexing, physique, or touching and praising muscles become the main event.

    No app numbers

  • Fat and size attraction

    Also called adipophilia or fat admiration, this is attraction to larger bodies, softness, bellies, weight, or size itself.

    No app numbers

  • Feederism and gaining

    Eating, feeding, weight gain, or helping a consenting partner gain becomes erotically meaningful.

    No app numbers

  • Pregnancy attraction

    Pregnancy, belly growth, fertility symbolism, body changes, or the pregnant state becomes erotic.

    No app numbers

  • Lactation interest

    Lactation, milk, nursing imagery, breasts producing milk, or the mix of fertility and caregiving becomes erotic.

    No app numbers

  • Tattoo and piercing fetish

    Tattoos and piercings, modified bodies, or the process and imagery of body modification become unusually hot.

    No app numbers

  • Olfactory and scent fetish

    Body odor can be a fetish focus, as can sweat, perfume, worn clothes, leather, hair, or one person’s scent.

    No app numbers

  • Amputee attraction

    Acrotomophilia is attraction to limb difference, amputation, prostheses, or a particular body configuration.

    No app numbers

  • Belly and navel fetish

    Stomachs, bellies, navels, softness, abdominal movement, or belly size become a preferred focus.

    No app numbers

Clothes, materials, and objects

Definitions for this family

  • Shoe and boot fetish

    Footwear becomes erotic through shape, smell, material, status, memory, or the role of its wearer.

    56% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 58% yes, receiving 50% yes

  • Lingerie and underwear fetish

    With a lingerie or underwear fetish, the clothing stays central.

    83% said yesInterest 4.8 of 5Giving 84% yes, receiving 79% yesRead the guide: Lingerie and underwear fetish

  • Stocking and hosiery fetish

    Stocking and hosiery fans are drawn to tights, socks, seams, or that unmistakable nylon feel.

    73% said yesInterest 4.7 of 5Giving 73% yes, receiving 67% yes

  • Leather fetish

    Leather’s smell, weight, creak, shine, clothing, and history in queer leather and BDSM cultures become erotic.

    53% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 55% yes, receiving 54% yes

  • Latex and rubber fetish

    Tightness, shine, smell, texture, encasement, and second-skin transformation create the appeal.

    39% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 42% yes, receiving 38% yes

  • PVC and vinyl fetish

    Some people report fetish interests in fabrics such as vinyl.

    No app numbers

  • Glove fetish

    Gloves are a recognized clothing fetish.

    51% said yesGiving 47% yes, receiving 51% yes

  • Mask and hood fetish

    Concealing the face changes identity, expression, vulnerability, and power.

    37% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 38% yes, receiving 34% yes

  • Plushophilia

    Plush toys or stuffed-object aesthetics become erotically meaningful to an adult.

    No app numbers

  • Balloon fetishism

    Balloons become erotic through texture, size, inflation, pressure, squeaks, suspense, popping, or determined non-popping.

    No app numbers

  • Objectophilia and object sexuality

    A nonhuman object becomes the focus of romantic, intimate, or sexual attachment.

    No app numbers

  • Sploshing and food play

    Wet-and-messy play, or WAM, makes texture, mess, and slippery absurdity erotic.

    57% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5Giving 62% yes, receiving 54% yes

Transformation, fantasy, and impossible bodies

Definitions for this family

  • Bimbofication

    A consenting adult transforms into an exaggerated bimbo persona: hyper-feminine, glamorous, sexual, carefree, or deliberately simplified.

    No app numbers

  • Himbofication

    Bimbofication’s masculine-coded cousin emphasizes beauty, muscles, sweetness, simplicity, and cheerful himbo energy.

    No app numbers

  • Dollification

    Also called doll play or living doll, this means becoming or treating a consenting partner as a posed, dressed, motionless, or highly controlled doll.

    37% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 35% yes, receiving 37% yes

  • Erotic hypnosis

    Hypnotic language, trance, suggestion, focus, and ritual become erotic.

    37% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 38% yes, receiving 34% yes

  • Mind-control fantasy

    Commands, programming, brainwashing, magic, possession, or fictional loss of agency form the premise.

    23% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 26% yes, receiving 21% yes

  • Corruption kink

    A consenting adult character moves from innocence, restraint, or reluctance toward eager participation.

    No app numbersRead the guide: Corruption kink

  • Transformation fetish

    Usually shortened to TF, this is arousal focused on the process of a body changing form, with the metamorphosis itself as the erotic focus.

    No app numbers

  • Gender-transformation fantasy

    Magical, technological, or imagined changes in sex traits, presentation, or gender role become erotic.

    No app numbers

  • Body-swap fantasy

    Two characters exchange bodies, making altered embodiment, identity, perspective, control, and taboo access the hook.

    15% said yesInterest 4.1 of 5Giving 15% yes, receiving 15% yes

  • Robot and cyborg transformation

    A person becomes programmed, mechanical, artificial, or technologically controlled.

    No app numbers

  • Furry sexuality and yiff

    Anthropomorphic animal characters, fursonas, art, fantasy, or consenting adult costumed roleplay become erotic.

    No app numbersRead the guide: Furry sexuality and yiff

  • Monster and creature attraction

    Monster lovers find the strangeness hot: alien bodies, impossible anatomy, danger, huge size differences, transformations.

    35% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 36% yes, receiving 35% yes

  • Macrophilia and giant fantasy

    Vast size difference is erotic: being enormous, being tiny beside a giant, worshipping a giantess, or treating a city like a footstool.

    No app numbers

  • Microphilia and shrinking fantasy

    Becoming tiny, or meeting a tiny person, creates vulnerability, containment, control, scale, and a different perspective.

    No app numbers

  • Inflation fetish

    A body or body part expands in an imagined, usually impossible way.

    No app numbers

  • Vore

    Short for vorarephilia, vore is the fantasy of swallowing, containing, or being swallowed by another character.

    No app numbers

  • Petrification and statue transformation

    A person becomes stone or a stone statue, or is imagined as a mannequin, frozen, or permanently posed.

    No app numbers

  • Oviposition and egg-laying fantasy

    In oviposition fantasy, eggs are laid inside the body, turning fictional implantation and reproduction into a transformation and breeding motif.

    No app numbers

  • Tentacle fantasy

    Tentacle fantasy turns octopus-like limbs, and sometimes branches or vines, into erotic BDSM power play, so restraint and being wildly outnumbered come built in.

    No app numbers

  • Mpreg fantasy

    Male pregnancy, meaning pregnancy in a body not ordinarily capable of it, becomes the reproductive and transformation premise.

    No app numbers

Reproduction, fluids, elimination, and clinical interests

Definitions for this family

  • Breeding and impregnation kink

    Breeding kink lives in the words: “I want to put a baby in you.”

    42% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 45% yes, receiving 36% yes

  • Semen-focused fetish

    Semen’s visibility, texture, or links with fertility and possession become unusually important.

    31% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 36% yes, receiving 28% yes

  • Saliva and spit play

    With spit play, saliva can feel filthy, intimate, dominant, or all of the above.

    34% said yesInterest 4.4 of 5Giving 30% yes, receiving 36% yes

  • Urine fetish

    Search for urolagnia, urophilia, watersports, or golden showers and you will land in the same wet corner of kink.

    7% said yesGiving 8% yes, receiving 6% yes

  • Menstruation fetish

    Menstrual blood, menstruating bodies, cycle symbolism, or the taboo around periods becomes erotic.

    No app numbers

  • Enema fetish

    The clinical ritual, filling sensation, control, cleansing symbolism, or embarrassment around enemas becomes erotic.

    No app numbersRead the guide: Enema fetish

  • Coprophilia and scat fetish

    Coprophilia centers sexual excitement on feces and related fantasies; “scat fetish” is common shorthand.

    No app numbers

  • Flatulence fetish

    Eproctophilia is the search term; most people say fart fetish.

    No app numbers

  • Vomit fetish

    Emetophilia makes vomit part of the erotic charge.

    No app numbers

  • Urethral and sounding interest

    Urethral play, including sounding, makes the insertion itself or the clinical vulnerability around it erotic.

    No app numbersRead the guide: Urethral and sounding interest

  • Catheter fetish and catheter fantasy

    In catheter fantasies, the vulnerable hospital procedure is the turn-on.

    No app numbersRead the guide: Catheter fetish and catheter fantasy

  • Clinical examination fetish

    For some people, the hottest part of medical play is the exam itself: the gloves, positioning, formal inspection, or instruments.

    35% said yesInterest 4.3 of 5Giving 38% yes, receiving 32% yesRead the guide: Clinical examination fetish

  • Medical appliance fetish

    Casts, braces, hospital clothing, and other medical equipment can become erotic objects.

    No app numbers

Watching, being watched, and performing

Definitions for this family

  • Consensual exhibitionism

    Being watched, displayed, photographed, or visibly sexual becomes exciting when everyone intentionally involved has agreed.

    54% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 56% yes, receiving 52% yes

  • Consensual voyeurism

    Watching consenting adults, or being invited to watch, is the erotic focus.

    70% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5Giving 59% yes, receiving 80% yesRead the guide: Consensual voyeurism

  • Risk-of-being-seen fantasy

    The excitement comes from almost being discovered: secrecy, forbidden-space atmosphere, danger, or exposure.

    46% said yesInterest 4.2 of 5Giving 47% yes, receiving 46% yes

  • Mirror and self-display kink

    A mirror turns seeing yourself or your partner into part of the performance.

    No app numbers

  • Camera and recording kink

    For some people, getting the camera out is the turn-on.

    55% said yesInterest 4.5 of 5Giving 59% yes, receiving 46% yesRead the guide: Camera and recording kink

  • Audience and watched-sex kink

    Knowing consenting people are watching excites the performers, audience, or both.

    36% said yesInterest 4.2 of 5Giving 35% yes, receiving 37% yesRead the guide: Audience and watched-sex kink

  • Online exhibitionism

    Posting, streaming, sexting, or sharing erotic self-images provides a digital “being seen” thrill.

    57% said yesInterest 4.6 of 5Giving 58% yes, receiving 57% yes

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Most common kinks on this list

Of the kinks on this list that have app numbers, these are the ones the most people in the BeMoreKinky app said yes to, out of everyone who rated each one.

  1. 1Breath play and sexual strangulation85% said yes
  2. 2Hair pulling84% said yes
  3. 3Breast and chest focus83% said yes
  4. 3Lingerie and underwear fetish83% said yes
  5. 5Free use fantasy81% said yes
  6. 6Bondage and restraint78% said yes
  7. 6Leg and thigh focus78% said yes
  8. 8Praise kink75% said yes
  9. 9Consensual forced orgasm and overstimulation74% said yes
  10. 10Brat and brat-tamer play73% said yes

Where the yes, maybe and no numbers come from

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The app only shows people some of its activities, so these are shares of the people who rated a kink, not of everyone. Interest is the average star rating, from 1 to 5, that people gave with a yes. Giving and receiving split the same answers by the side of the activity people rated.

A kink shows no numbers when the app has no matching activity, when too few people rated it, or when it is one of a few sensitive kinks we keep private.