Practices
BDSM Toys & Tools
Comprehensive guides to BDSM toys, tools, and equipment for safe and exciting play.
BDSM toys and tools enhance scenes and provide new sensations and experiences. This collection covers everything from basic toys to specialized equipment.
Our Equipment Guides
Furniture and Space
- BDSM Furniture Guide: Beds, Cages, and Benches
- BDSM Room Setup: Sex Dungeon Guide
- DIY BDSM Furniture Projects
Restraints and Positioning
Toys and Devices
- Vibrating Panties Guide and Scene Ideas
- Pegging Positions, Pleasure & Equipment
- TENS Unit for Sexual Pleasure
Topics Covered
- Impact Toys: Paddles, floggers, whips, and canes
- Restraint Equipment: Cuffs, ropes, spreader bars, and more
- Sensation Toys: Items for temperature play, sensation play
- Insertable Toys: Plugs, dildos, and specialized items
- Furniture & Equipment: BDSM furniture and positioning aids
- Safety & Maintenance: Proper care and hygiene for toys
Getting Started
Start with versatile, body-safe toys and gradually build your collection based on interests and experience. Always prioritize quality and safety when selecting BDSM equipment. For techniques using this equipment, explore our bondage guides and impact play.
Articles in this section
What Is a Sex Toy Party? What to Expect and How to Host One
The honest, non-sales-pitch guide to sex toy parties: what really happens, how to host one well, and the pushy-consultant pitfalls to watch for.
Nipple Clamps For Beginners: How Not To Hurt Yourself
A beginner-friendly guide to nipple clamps: warming up, getting the pressure right, and timing the release for that bright rush instead of regret.
How to Use a Vibrator Without Overthinking It
The no-nonsense basics: buttons, lube, placement, and cleaning, plus how to work out what actually feels good without any performance pressure.
How to Use a Sex Pillow
How a firm angled wedge gives you deeper penetration, better access, and far less strain on the joints that shouldn't ache during sex.
Autoblow AI Ultra and VacuGlide 2 Review
An honest look at the Autoblow AI Ultra and VacuGlide 2 blowjob machines: how they feel, what they cost, and the awkward bits before you buy.
Anal Hook Guide: What They Are and How to Use Them
What an anal hook is, how it works for predicament bondage and rope play, plus the safety and posture-control details to get right.
Cornstarch Lube: DIY Recipe and Safety Guide
A simple cornstarch lube recipe plus the honest safety, storage, and when-not-to-use-it advice so your cheap kitchen lube does not cause trouble.
How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator
A practical guide to getting the rabbit ears to line up with your clit, finding your angle, and actually enjoying that blended buzz.
How to Pick a Day Collar: Complete BDSM Guide
Learn how to choose the perfect day collar for your BDSM relationship. Explore types, styles, where to buy, and what makes a meaningful discreet collar.
Best Sex Board Games for Couples (Beginner to Advanced)
Discover the best sex board games to spice up your relationship, from romantic starter games to adventurous BDSM experiences. Expert recommendations for every experience level.
Sexy Card Games for Couples: Spice Up Date Night
Discover the best sexy card games for couples to reignite passion, from strip poker to romantic conversation starters. Reviews, DIY ideas, and tips included.
How to Use an Anal Hook: Complete BDSM Bondage Guide
A comprehensive guide to anal hook bondage play, from choosing the right hook to safe usage techniques, predicament bondage scenarios, and aftercare tips.
BDSM Room Setup: Complete Sex Dungeon Guide
Transform any space into your perfect BDSM playroom. Complete guide to dungeon design, layouts, furniture, and fantasy-themed room ideas for every budget.
TENS Unit for Sexual Pleasure: Complete Safety Guide
Discover how to use TENS units for sexual stimulation safely. Learn electrode placement, orgasm techniques, equipment choices, and BDSM integration tips.
Ball Stretcher Guide: Everything You Need to Know
Discover safe ball stretching techniques, how to choose the right stretcher, and best practices for cock and ball toys in BDSM play.
DIY Sex Room Projects: Build Your Own BDSM Furniture
Learn how to build your own BDSM furniture with DIY projects including spanking benches, St. Andrew's crosses, and suspension rigs.
Vibrating Panties Guide and Play Ideas
A comprehensive guide to vibrating panties: how they work, what they feel like, how to choose the right model, and playful ways to use them. From discreet public teasing to long-distance intimacy, explore safe, ethical, and creative ways couples can integrate wearable vibrators into their erotic lives.
BDSM Furniture Guide: Beds, Cages, Benches & Tables
From four-poster bondage beds to discreet cages, spanking benches, and versatile bondage tables , explore how BDSM furniture enhances comfort, safety, and play possibilities. Learn what to look for, how to use each piece, and key safety considerations when furnishing your fantasy space.
Spreader Bars: Sizing, Usage & Scene Ideas
Learn how to choose, size, and safely use spreader bars for bondage and erotic play. This guide covers anatomy, safety, positions, rigging, and scene ideas, balancing pleasure with protection and trust.
Strapless vs Double-Ended Dildos
Strapless strap-ons and double-ended dildos look similar but deliver very different pleasures. Explore anatomy, fit, positions, and safety tips so you can choose, and use, the toy that best fits your play.
How to choose a Thrusting Dildo
Discover how thrusting toys can bring rhythm, endurance, and creativity into your play. From hands-free pulsators to full machines, learn what to look for based on body, fantasy, and context, plus the safety and care essentials that make them last.